How to stop looking at girls?

Hello @Megasameru. I am very glad you liked it and finded helpful.

In fact, this is an unconscious act. Checking women's fertility (great way of saying it!) is like those apps that are preinstalled in the phones and you can't delete. But what you can do is to delete all the useless memory cache. You will see, the more days pass free of PMO, you will notice your way of looking becomes cleaner. I notice this each day that passes.

I have not scientific data to back that up (I haven't search it, though), but I think it is very true. I have come to this realization thanks to the fact that were I live there are many muslim women, and they were loose clothes and they cover their hair as well. I questioned their clothing because I thought they (man or woman) would not be able to notice the fertile potential partners from the unfertile ones, but then I realized the face beauty.

I knew there had to be an explanation.

Let us continue rebooting to "factory defaults".

SpartanViking

 

I really admire your intention to (co)create life, that is the way man.

I think that we should look to every woman and think that she is surely daughter and grand-daughter, she is possibly a sister and wife, and potentially she can be mother and grand-mother.
Maybe you find this helpful.

 

I have started working on this. One thing I noticed the first night I joined when I went out for a walk, I passed two late teenaged girls and started to look at them as sex objects but turned away and did not think of that. Then I compared them to the other people I passed basically people who lived around where I live out for a walk especially the older more out of shape folks, closer to my age but probably younger (I am 70) than I am, and realized how that kind of looking is based not on their humanity but on unreal ideas about how women should be attractive as opposed to how women should be as people. Just do not look at them until you can look at them like people