So I am on Day 108 no P and staying with the loneliness to get at what lies beyond it. What is tripping me up is objectification. Brainwashed in being unable to see beyond the superficial. This leads to me going to an escort once every 3-4 months. I feel if I could understand the true nature of objectification I would be able to stop this, achieve self confidence alone, and then if it is meant to be, find a true life partner. So question I have for you is what is your view on objectifying, and I don't mean the default feminist response, but really as men why do we objectify and how do we get beyond it? The web is surprisingly sparse in this department but if you have any clips etc.. that help, please post in your reply. Many thanks kind sirs.