How to stop obsessing over a girl

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  1. Rishabh king

    Rishabh king Fapstronaut

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    Hey I am obsessing over a girl but she is dating someone I just saw her on Instagram and found her cute. Can somebody just help me out there with this ridiculous obsession and how to deal with the urges associated to it.

    I have tried cutting of her Instagram account but failed to do so
     
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  2. Peter.Parker10

    Peter.Parker10 Fapstronaut

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    What's that thing she got that calls to your attention so much? Could it be that may be you're projecting your value on her?

    How do you feel about yourself in general?

    These kinds of obssesions sometimes have to do with some self esteem problems.
     
  3. Rishabh king

    Rishabh king Fapstronaut

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    I found her cute and heard she is very caring I do have some self esteem issues are they due porn and masturbation.
     
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  4. Rishabh king

    Rishabh king Fapstronaut

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    I think her gorgeousness, cuteness and caring attitude is one of the biggest riding factor behind my obsession. I do have some self esteem issues but don’t know what to do about it and how can we avoid feeling sad and depressed due to that girl
     
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  5. PanteriMauzer

    PanteriMauzer Fapstronaut

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    Go find another one
     
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  6. bulldawg1970

    bulldawg1970 Fapstronaut

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    Maybe your attracted to her so much bc she is taken and you like the challenge? Alot of guys are attracted to ppl more when they know they can;t have them, which is not healthy and there plenty of girls out there who are just as sweet and genuine, you might just have to search a little, Don;t look on instagram for crying out loud, join a church adult organization, or an adult club in your area. Join a bike riding or running club, there;s plenty of single bro, don't hang yourself up on someone you can't have or shouldn;t have, Btw, this obsession turn off for girls, hint
     
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  7. Rishabh king

    Rishabh king Fapstronaut

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    Thanks buddy
     
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