How to talk to girls

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Lyart, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. Lyart

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    You have one month.

    Interact with one hundred strangers.

    It doesn't need to be a conversation about god and life. Simply interact with them.
    Ask them for the time, where place X is and so on.


    After one month, you will have developed your own communication techniques.
    You will notice how your learned social anxiety disappeares and is replaced by your confidence.

    Fuck, you won't even worry about what to say when approaching a girl anymore.

    Note that even eye contact and a smile counts as interacting!
    But over the time, you will want more !


    Thank me later
    Love
     
    Last edited: Mar 27, 2017
  2. Dinno95

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    Challenge accepted.
     
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  3. Aiyoshi

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    Maybe in the future.
     
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  4. Patillitas

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    I think that is a good idea, I haven't thought after, but maybe can work. I will try to do it, not with hundred persons but with some persons every day.
     
  5. Lyart

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    You're limiting yourself buddy. 3 persons/day equals 100/month
    It's easy!
     
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  6. Possible ways to cheat:
    • Nursing homes.
    • Maternity wards.
     
  7. Buzz Lightyear

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    One a day is more realistic. If you miss a couple, then you can do three... if you really want to.:)
     
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  8. Nigel19841984

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    THat sounds terrifying but fantastic. I might try it. Tell you what, i'll start slow and ask everyone who serves me at the bar or at a newsagents a question then i'll approach random strangers and ask questions. I'll post on this thread how i get on. :)
     
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  9. Lyart

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    How is your experience so far ?
     
  10. Dinno95

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    Great. I don't get embarrassed much often as I used to. Still I need to work with my self - confidence, my communication lasts pretty short when interacting. Seems like I am thinking too much what to say, or just don't know what to say.
     
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  11. Nigel19841984

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    To be honest i was a bit upset with myself for relapsing so haven't done that. But my head is much clearer now so i can start trying talking to strangers.
     
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  12. I Free I

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    Nice challenge . Should be helpful to people ...
     
  13. Lyart

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    That's great ! Because now you can focus on improving your communication.
    Look for videos on "How to talk to people" on youtube. :)
     
  14. I've been maced 4 times, am I doing it right?
     
  15. Also there's a challenge for self confidence. The challenge is to lay down on the busy street(near your house) for 30 seconds.
    I wish I had the guts to do it. XD
     
  16. TheWolverine

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    In society the eyes contact with some random girl in the street is considered to be bad :/
     
  17. Lyart

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    Who the fuck says that shit ?
     
  18. TheWolverine

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    In general I've heard that in my school
     
  19. TheWolverine

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    But this is hard for me to look at a girl if I have social anxiety
     
  20. black_coyote

    black_coyote Fapstronaut

    I'm interested in taking up this challenge. I haven't given much thought about the aspect you mentioned. Will give it a try. Let's see if it works. Will try to update whenever possible!
     

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