How to trigger a wet dream?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by leo da king, Apr 21, 2017.

  1. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    Just wondering because I'm feeling so horny and I've had a wet dream (I'm on day 9)
     
  2. J247

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    I hear if you're fantasizing or watching P or stuff that would arouse you before going to bed, then that could lead to a wet dream. I'm on day 43, and haven't had a wet dream yet. Probably won't either.
     
  3. The moon

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    Watching something that makes you feel horny or thinking about someone before going to bed. I had because of that.
     
  4. Calculusking

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    It's a bad idea to want to have a wet dream. Trust me on this one. I broke some pretty good streaks in the past because I lost sleep over the thought of possible wet dreams. You will either lose your sleep or you will end up breaking your streak out of frustration.
    Having said that, I must say that it isn't easy to keep those thoughts away. It will take a while for you to learn to say NO.
    Hence, in case you are unable to sleep, I would suggest that you pick frustration for a few days and then slowly learning to come to terms with it, rather than breaking your streak so that you are able to sleep. Stay away from breaking the streak and live without sleep for a few days if necessary. Eventually the sleep will be recovered and you will also learn to sleep without the thought of wet dreams.
    My favourite quote to help you out - "Doing something once will only make it much easier to do it again"
    - Harrison (Harry) Wells (Earth-2) from DC's Flash(season 3 episode 14). Hence, if you think "Oh, I will do it now. I am sure I will not do it next time", it will be easier for you to say the same thing to yourself in the next streak.
    Peace
     
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  5. Venom1

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    Don't know....but y u want a wet dream??
     
  6. MarathiBoy

    MarathiBoy New Fapstronaut

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    If u like or think of or fantasise then your unconscious mind put that stuff in your dreams.

    But if anyone want to get rid of wet dreams then you can do:
    1. Yoga at night
    2. Don't drink too much liquid before sleep
    3. Pee before going to bed
    4. If u wake up midnight then must pee
    5. Calm & relax your mind before getting sleep. For this u can meditate or follow some simple breathing technique.
     
  7. Learn the art of Lucid Dreaming. Your dreams are now solely left to what your mind can conjure.
    Although IMO that should be considered a relapse(Lucid induced wet dream)

    Keeping a dream journal will help you improve recollection of dreams. That helps in the long run.
    Also if you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night, forcing yourself to sleep has been the most effective method for me to be mindful during REM state and then it's just a matter of not losing control of the dream and not waking up.
     
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  8. i think wet dreams/ dreams come because you are surpressing/trying to stop (thinking about something or someone) and they flood u and attack u in ways when youre asleep making you face it again and again.. i think they pass after a while..i think its best to read stuff or look at art or funny things before sleeping. what you invest your thoughts and time doing a couple or few hours before sleeping are important to what you dream of sort of ive heard.
     
  9. Drink a lot of water so your bladder is full and puts pressure where you wanna pressure to be. Do some squats and lower abdominal exercises before bed to pump the blood in a region where you want blood to be. Sleep on your side with your tights together on top of each other, that puts some more pressure where ya want pressure to be. Fantasizing sexual thoughts before bed does help too. And as somebody mentioned, learning how to have lucid dreams pretty much means you can have wet dreams every night if you want, cos you can just induce sex dream whenever you feel like, if you're lucid.

    That all being said, be careful with this. Wet dreams very often induce chaser effect. Meaning you will have way more intense urges to MO / watch P few days afterwards. Also I would consider intentional wet dreams as a type of masturbation. So that means you can not call yourself being on Hard Mode if you are doping this. Cos you are masturbating.
     
  10. LavaSteal

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    So some people suggest that you shouldn’t want to have a wet dream another reason for this is prob what are you gonna do with the cum and if you like the release fap away but if you want arousal the way you like ypur brain can do that for but if you dont want to cum try all you can in ypu dream to hold it in ive found it so fucking good.
     
  11. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    The time I posted this was like a year ago. I'm on day 400 something now and have better knowledge.
     
  12. TC10

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    Wow, I thought for a moment that you relapsed Leo. Glad you didn’t, because you’re an inspiration for us all.
     
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  13. I think this is a bad idea. Every time I've done this, I just wake up mid-sexy dream, super horny with incredibly low inhibitions and end up MOing.
     
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  14. Ecco

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    Just stop. Why on Earth?
     
  15. leo da king

    leo da king Fapstronaut

    Nocturnal Emmisions come to me every 7-15 days
     
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  16. tyrrjay

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    I just had a wet dream. Now it's exactly 21 days since I started NoFap. To be honest I had no control while sleeping, the dream of having sex just came and overtook me. In fact it all felt too real in my sleep, I thought I had actually had sex. I remember cumming inside her whoever she was hahaha, but didn't realize I had cum in my boxers, lol sorry guys too graphic. Anyway moral of the story sometimes I feel in control and wake up mid sex dream but yesterday, like no control and no I don't feel the urge to p or m.
     
  17. Little Bo Peep

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    I used to try when I was on nofap before and was tired of being severly horny all the time, but no matter the amount of days or how aroused I was nothing worked trying to force one. It would probably end in disaster for me thinking about it now, but I'm pretty sure I can't even If I wanted to.
     
  18. kingpietro

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    eat fat food like chips, fries , hamburgers really unhealthy food.
     
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  19. EXPONENTIALLY

    EXPONENTIALLY Fapstronaut

    Cayenne pepper, dark chocolate and avocados and

    sleep on belly

    I don't encourage wetdreams though.
     
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