I'm sorry about your ended relationship. They're always tough to go through. But I have to be honest with you in order to give the best advice I can. How many relationships have you had? I read exactly two here. To be honest, I feel like you're overreacting. Unless you've been in many failed relationships, I fail to see why you could find it difficult to trust men. And this is excluding the possibility that it's not "men" that is the problem, it's you. Please understand, I'm not trying to come across as a dick or anything. But right now, excluding your relationship status, I fail to see your plight, especially in regards to the name of this thread.