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How we can try to stop addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Surprise, Apr 30, 2019.

  1. Surprise

    Surprise Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I've posted 2 or 3 threads here and there but I'll give a brief introduction of myself. I'm a 15 year old(almost 16)boy who's been addicted to pmo for about 3 to 4 years now. It all started when I was 11 years old, there was an erotic picture and seeing this, I automatically got wet without knowing that I orgasmed.From there, I slowly got to know more and started masturbating around 2 or 3 times a week,to pictures of girls in bikinis. Then around 13,i watched porn for the first time and orgasmed without even myself.And from there, it slowly evolved and yea. It wasn't a problem back then because I wasn't addicted, but as I grew up, I became more of an orthodox, religious person. This was where the problem began. I always kept fapping and then I found this website. It gave me some motivation, but not enough so I continued. But last year, I completed no nut November without even meaning to! I realized that I actually had a chance and made my new year's resolution not to fap. I relapsed but the first two months I fapped only 3 times, which was well a start. But the next two months got worse and I relapsed more frequently and this month has been the worst. And I know it's time to improve myself. But how?

    Well I realize if I need to throw this vice away, I need a strong reason. Why won't I fap anymore? Why won't I watch porn anymore? Because I want a better life. I want a better version of myself.I demand a better version of myself.
    Even if it pleasures my senses, it isn't morally correct. Porn is extremely immoral. It makes humans, beautiful creatures,into objects, things of abuse for pleasure, things of immoral acts for pleasure and all the negative ways to degrade humans, ones who have beautiful personalities too, into objects of pleasure. This is wrong in every way I realize and that's why porn shouldn't be watched at all.
    Masturbating takes too much of our time and energy. We can spend that energy on doing things we could do to reform ourselves, entertain ourselves, teach ourselves and all in all live and love life. It shouldn't be wasted on us feeding out on our lust. No it shouldn't.
    My most significant reason for starting proper nofap is because I know if I continue this, I can't ever be a better person in life. I can't ever get anyone because I'll have this sick guilt of watching porn obsessively.I don't want to be a lonely, disgusting man who feels sorry for himself after spending his entire life just fapping and being good for nothing. No,i wanna be more than that. I will be more than that. I'll try my utter best to do nofap and never watch porn for its one of the most despicable thing on this earth. And I will be a better person. I hope you too will help yourself and get rid of this sick habit one day. It'll take patience and self-control, but that's something we need to learn too in this life right? Peace my fapstronaut brothers :) and best of luck!
     
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  2. wow. Wise words from such a young guy
     
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  3. Rpp70K

    Rpp70K Fapstronaut

    I would have liked your determination 30 years ago.
    You will finalize it, if you can mantain this spirit
     
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  4. Surprise

    Surprise Fapstronaut

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    thank you!
     
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    Surprise Fapstronaut

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    It's never too late to change, no matter how deep you think you are in a pit, as long as you believe whole-heartedly that you can and will get out, it'll happen. That's what's so amazing about the human psyche, if one believes strong enough, one can overcome any obstacles
     
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