How would you best describe how porn feels compared to real sex?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by gen66, Apr 19, 2016.

Do you prefer porn or real sex?

  1. I prefer porn orgasm

    9.4%
  2. I prefer real sex orgasm

    90.6%
  1. Ambrose

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    Hey Kristen, part of that may be your female physiology. With a careing long term partner who's willing to work at it that could change.

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    My wife used to only orgasm a quarter of the time when we first got together. After 7 years she always does and often has multiple Os ( I'm so jealous). It was a matter of me wanting that for her and figuring out what her specific buttons were.
     
  2. Ben Jamin'

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    I think that sometimes when the brain is wired towards PMO it enjoys that more (often because of ED). But if you ask the question "if your brain wasn't wired to sex or PMO specifically, which would feel better?" I think everyone would say the real deal is better.

    I have never done the real thing (I'm still in my mid teens), but this is my understanding. Feel free to disagree.
     
  3. Kristen

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    Maybe..I only had sex 1 time..and it was with a person i wasnt attracted to or liked...i met him online and we went on 2 dates and then had sex the third date....so idk..
     
  4. Real sex with someone you are emotionally connected to is not even comparative to porn sex. The biggest difference is no negative side effects. By nature, I think people want to have meaningful sex and porn is just a cheap, easy, lackluster substitute. Real will always beat fake. Purely physical sex with no emotional bond will most likely be unsatisfying most of the time, so that sometimes will confuse the brain that porn is better.
     
  5. Chrisfp11

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    I find that my urge for pmo abd my urge for sex are difference. Often when I pmo it's because I'm stressed and want to escape from my worries. The dopamine is what I'm chasing.... When I'm with my wife and I want sex it's because we are connecting or because I'm horny in a traditional way
     
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  6. strength54

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    Real sex is much better. Before I had real sex, I had a lot of porn sex and that was orgasmic... The first time I had real,real sex, not just masturbation into a woman where I was having these porno images, it was fucking spiritual and I remember thinking this has nothing to do with all that bullshit I have been jerking off to. This is fucking amazing and why did this take so long to discover. And then bad shit happens and things fall apart. So you give up. Porn sex is easy and available and you get to sit in front of a computer numbing yourself. No drama and nobody has ever called me out from a screen. But you're not thinking I could build my life around this. You're thinking what a loser you are. And yet you continue.
     
  7. Vykus

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    I'll take it down to basics. With real sex my toes curl and tingle with masterbation that does not happen. Real sex is your whole body, masterbation is your hand and your cock.
     
  8. All of you with wives and gf's, who are getting real sex, I will never understand how or why pmo's still an option. That may just be from my current perspective, you know, mid-twenties, virgin, social anxiety filled beta male, but the feeling and touching of a real human being, must feel like the most loving experience ever, that I can imagine. The way it's supposed to be.

    On a second thought, being a somewhat semi-addict/junkie myself, things could be complicated even with a real girl, but I just doubt it for myself.
     
  9. Vykus

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    Sentinel, do you think wives or GF's are available as often as an addict wants to fap? plus there is no novelty being with the same women for 18 yrs. Trust me, I got real bored
     
  10. Ambrose

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    Sentinel- yes it's irrational. All addictions/"compulsive" behaviors are.

    PMO is to the real thing as cold 3 day old pizza is to filet mignon
     
  11. NeedHelp11111

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    Im new here, but i I personally love real sex a lot more than porn. However, I get very big urges to ejaculate and if a girl is not an option, the porn is right there and available. I have lost so much self control when it comes to sex. Even some days after i have real sex, I might jack off later.
     
  12. TheIdealMan

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    From what I hear, sex is far better, but PMO is far easier to do. This forum is for the people who choose the easy option over the better option.
     

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