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How would you do sex education?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by IGY, Mar 3, 2017.

  1. IGY

    IGY Guest

    There are some diverse and interesting views expressed on this topic so far. I want to hear from more about sex ed. It is the future opportunity to inform and also protect our children from the dangers that are lurking from a very young age! :oops:
     
  2. tendency14

    tendency14 Fapstronaut

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    No, i never had a "talk" i just fell for it and had to get back up alone, nobody told me anithing, i never got the entire phrase or related to "masturbation isnt good for you" i got carried away from boys my age and got the info from people my age wich wasnt good, i was a shy, and quiet kid, and influenced a lot by kids my age my parents never mentioned to me, my siblings lived really far from me so i didnt have any, the only people i would see was friends in school and othet places, up to that moment the only info i got was sex was ok and porn was too and so was MO because kids my age were in my influence in that time
     
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  3. IGY

    IGY Guest

    So, what would you do if you had a son @tendency14?
     
  4. IGY

    IGY Guest

    I have no idea upon what you base these opinions @SnowWhite:

    (1) If there is trust between adults and children, then normally "sex education" will follow naturally!

    (2) People who have experienced an open sex education, don't have problems like a PMO addiction!

    The fact is parents, with few exceptions are embarrassed talking about sex. Having trusting children makes no difference. Addiction to PMO seems to occur just the same regardless of having an open sex education or not. Again, no difference. :(
     
  5. tendency14

    tendency14 Fapstronaut

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    Well.. Thats a nice question, i would be reasonable and know IF i had to say something, firts i would see then i would do. This isnt something to be rushed. Then without doubt in some point of time i would say the words correctly
     
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  6. tendency14

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    I must say, i did get "talks" by grown ups in that time that told me pmo was actually ok, wich was what made me get into it even more, so i think, it is important to advice correctly a son about this before he can get ideas from bad sources like i did
     
  7. tendency14

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    Focusing in choosing sistematically an age/s wouldnt be the best procedure, defining such fradgile issue relying by age let alone isnt good, the moment in wich the explanation is demonstrated should be in the correct given moment, wich one isnt able to choose, bcause its life, and life ahead of us is unknown. Thats why one should be reasonable and know wen the correct moment is there. This should be taken as a special procedure in wich every individual is diferent and needs its given moment, the parents now their sons better than teachers or any other identity, they now that given moment, because they would see the need his son would be facing, diferent from what you mentioned about the UK implementig all those advices wich would be in tematical and sistematic teoric way, with kids diferent ages at the same time in a class room, it would be in a generalized way, not focusing in each and every kid in a deep level way in, situation, caracteristics and feelings twords his toughts by seperate, lets not forget that we are not all the same, so every kid should get his/her treatment exclusivly by separated, not as a generalized lesson way , that task should be induced by each parent to their given son as each home/parents administrate under their given way nowing his son way of being
     
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  8. Urint

    Urint New Fapstronaut

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    Guys, i need write essay about sex education
    It's hard I think. Some advice maybe?
     
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  9. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    My dad told me when I was a kid: "Your thing goes inside the other thing, and if you do it before you have are married with a job, you screwed up your life." It worked wonders, I'm doing the same if I ever have children.
     

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