How would you explain to a woman?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by skaterdrew, Apr 4, 2019.

  1. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    What would you say to a woman you were seeing about why you weren't using a smart phone? Would you tell the woman you're addicted to porn?
     
  2. Seawolfee

    Seawolfee Fapstronaut

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    Hmm If she is fine she will accept the trouth. But i Dont know. It was difficult for me to Tell my friends so... yeah u need someone else to aid you.
     
  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    "The V of Vendetta people hacked my phone"
     
  4. StarvingSparrow

    StarvingSparrow Fapstronaut

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    Well it all depends I guess... do you wanna lie or do you want to tell the truth? I've realized that the truth really isn't that bad
     
  5. _Owais_

    _Owais_ Fapstronaut

    But i think its not the right time for me to tell my gf about my addiction at the moment because its just been a month since we are engaged in relationship with each other...But If u think its right time for you then go ahead
     
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  6. Somehow, yes. Honesty is not always rewarding but it is the best policy in any case. Agree or disagree, your call.
     
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  7. StarvingSparrow

    StarvingSparrow Fapstronaut

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    Are you trying to get better? If you are and you think you're making progress then I think it's the perfect time. Don't wait until you're married to tell her
     
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  8. _Owais_

    _Owais_ Fapstronaut

    hmmm...But there is a risk of losing the girl...So its better to do it slowly :)
     
  9. StarvingSparrow

    StarvingSparrow Fapstronaut

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    If you are engaged then you shouldn't have to worry about losing her and if you wait until marriage then you are more likely to lose her
     
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  10. You cant tell her a basic phone that makes calls and sends texts suits your needs fine. No you should not tell her you're are addicted to porn.
     
  11. JustALonelyBoy

    JustALonelyBoy Fapstronaut

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    If you really trust her then I would say tell her. Being vulnerable and admitting something like a porn addiction is hard but it helps if the person believes in you. She can help you stay strong and it might bring y’all closer together. Also if she gets upset about it, then she’s not worth your time.
     
  12. zeroHEX3

    zeroHEX3 New Fapstronaut

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    Always speak the truth. If she ditches you then she wouldve ditched you too later on.

    The thing is that there are two outcomes. She stays because she loves you more then sex, which would be awesome.
    Or she leaves, because she wants sex. And thats fine. You cannot force her to wait. Wanting sex is normal.

    In the end, its better then lying or hiding. You can do it!
     
  13. Simonthepieman

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    I've got a Nokia banana phone because I like to be retro! You can be tech rebel, you know...
     
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  14. SweetTransformation

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    I'm not sure if this is a little late now but you could keep it general by referring to your refraining from social media because you are still in the early stages of the relationship. I'm not suggesting you keep it from her but it is a bit full-on to begin with. I mean does she share the same opinion as you about porn, have you spoken about sex etc..
    All this said, you have to gage the situation because you're the one that's interacted with her?

    Hope this helps
     

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