Hugs are better than sex

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by PornIsTheNewCocaineOf20Century, Mar 15, 2019.

  1. HugoBoss

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    Hugs are awesome.. especially bear hugs with a person that you're attracted to.
    There's nothing weird about you bro
     
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  2. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I fully understand you. I miss kisses and hugging (I am single from circa a year).

    You don't need another person to orgasm, but you can't hug or kiss yourself.
     
  3. For me sex happens when love is at the max level, depends on the person
     
  4. letter

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    Cross your arms over each other, hold them in front of you.

    If you’ve done this exercise correctly, you will notice there is a space inside your arms that will fit a whole other person.

    Well done. You now understand why hugs are important.
     
  5. Pizzapowa

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    You are not alone, I m scared too about having a relationship. Sometimes I feel alone and I want to date someone but I m actually very occupied and I have literally not so much free time so I think that having a girlfriend can limit my habits and make my life worst ... I know by the way that this thing sounds very bad and if possible I want to have a girlfriend that has my same interests. Should I just wait for the right one that I will find just living my life and doing the things I love to do? Should I go to find her? That's my biggest problem at the moment, and the only one I M not able to solve...
     
  6. WonderingKid21

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    Awww .. I already love your niece my friend ^_^ .. may God bless her ^^ and surely hugs are essential especially from those cutely pure-hearted children n_n
     
  7. quantumd

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    Firstly, this thread is awesome. Secondly, Cuddles are 10x better than sex. A hug from behind gently with your loved one is something I truly crave more than sex period.
     
  8. llortaton

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    IKRRRR. ITS SOOOOOOOO SATISFYING.

    I JUS WANNA HUGGIEEEE :)
     
  9. Fractured Mindset

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    Considering this is something I know I need right now (I refuse physical contact with my immediate family, but extended family I'm ok with, and having a woman to cling to would probably help me a lot), I'm wondering about something that happened to me November 20. I finally got to hug a girl I wanted, but didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would, while it was certainly nice to wrap my arms around her, I didn't exactly get the rush I wanted and didn't really feel her wrapping her arms around be. Maybe I was too focused on wrapping my arms tightly around her. Either way, glad it still happened even though she rejected me about two months later.
    My porn problem has shown me I should not have sex, but I want a girl to hold pretty badly.
     
  10. MoreEnergy

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    Oh yes, loneliness is a huge problem in our modern society. I remember the 80s when people talked to each other and their talking was never interrupted by a phone call or whatsapp. There was no Google, so if you knew something (reading books) then you got already a start point for a nice conversation. Making a contact was so much easier. Today its all about technology, social networks, virtual life. I believe that the heart chakra suffers from PMO. It begins to close when one begins to watch that stuff. But it does not necessarily mean that it closes forever. After a certain time without PMO the heart chakra begins to get active again. This is the time when you desires hugs. Some friends noticed that in me and began to hug me when we greet each other (no sexual thoughts at all). A friend of mine who "was gay" (the tendency will remain for a long time) hugs me too (I'm totally straight) and because he abstain from PMO too, he told me that he felt that I needed to be hugged. Some people are not completely messed up. Many tries to get their life PMO free. Now that I try (and retry and try again for the x time) I began noticing PMO "signs" in other people. They don't desire to be hugged (interesting).
     
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  11. pfb2019

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    Hugs are sometimes the cure and it makes you feel special and that's what I'm looking for. Sort of in a relationship with someone who probably likes me to the point of needing company. I will tell I can only be friends because I'm not attracted to her because me and her are going in different directions. There's really no cure for my loneliness. It just comes and goes. The only thing that will make her happy is for me to be there, showing her I love her as a friend, and I hope I'm letting her down easy. It's all I can do for now.
     
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  12. wwtl

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    I was reading this thread after waking up early this morning, then returned to sleep and had a dream of a long loving hug. It felt amazing.

    I guess now I know what I'm missing from my real life.
     
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  13. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I really miss hugging too.
     
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  14. wwtl

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    I've never been loved by my parents, so I just receive(d) fake hugs.

    The dream clearly showed me, what you cannot find in porn, in a casual sex hookups or as a paid service. It's the only thing which still can't be exploited commercially. Let's hope and pray we find someone to hug.
     
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  15. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I hole we will make it fren.
     
  16. Joining in the 'do want hug' club... I seriously, seriously miss genuine intimacy like that.
     
  17. lifetime2018

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    Dear,

    I believe that you would be combining two different things into one. Sex and Hugs are two different things. Giving a hug to someone does not declare that you are diving into any relationship. Hugs can be given to the same or different gender, but it does not prove anything but a kind gesture.
     
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  18. i never had sex and the one time a girl hugged me whehn making out was shit cause it was an act
     

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