Sorry for this being so long! Been meaning to make this thread for awhile, because this addiction can be very dangerous and I believe that I can actually be more damaging than porn. So this started back in 2015 when the whisper app was still popular, I used to make posts asking girls who’ve had sex to PM me because I needed some advice and when some girls responded, I would first ask if they were over 18 and if they were, I would tell them that I wanted a girl’s opinion on some things that I want to try in bed with a girl. So I would ask them some things and as time went on and they got more comfortable with talking to me, we would just start talking more and more about her sex life in graphic detail and there were even some times when she knew that I was getting off to what she was telling me and didn’t mind, no pics were ever exchanged, we would always just talk about her sex life. This went on for awhile and even made me over an hour late for work on more than one occasion because I couldn’t pry myself away from the app. I finally managed to break free as the whisper app lost popularity, but it has r been resurfacing again as I have recently discovered the subreddit r/dirtykikpals this subreddit’s purpose is to help people find someone to have X rated chats with via Kik. When I discovered this, I quickly made a post and got some responses from girls willing to talk about their sex lives. Only this time I think it was more dangerous because they knew going into it that I’m getting off to what they’re telling me and they have no problem with that. A few weeks ago, I literally talked to a girl all day about her sex life after she responded to my Reddit post. I had to force myself to go out and work because every fiber of my being wanted me to stay home and fap with one hand and text her on Kik with the other. I get so much more aroused by this than I do from porn, but it affects my real life responsibilities so much more than porn does, this addiction started because I have very low confidence and I’ve felt like this is the closest I will ever come to having sex. I want to advise everyone not to get into this, it will bring you nothing but trouble.