I’m getting wet dreams every 2-3 days.

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  1. untitled.mastered

    untitled.mastered New Fapstronaut

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    Someone please help.

    Been on NoFap for 1 year now. Last relapse was December 2018. I’ve had 2-3 wet dreams a week for the last 4 months and it’s really messing me up. This is not normal and I don’t know what’s wrong.

    I’ve tested almost every piece of advice you can find on the web regarding diet. (No spicy food before bed, overeating, etc) Then I did a fast on water for 8 days and I still had wet dreams every 3 days.

    Can someone please help? I’m willing to pay $500 if anyone can genuinely help me solve this, as it’s extremely irritating at this point.

    I don’t fantasize, I don’t even have a sexual drive, I’m 22 years old, I don’t peek at porn and lust.
     
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  2. EZBanger

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    I m also doing all sort of experiments to stop that stupid thing from happening. Sometimes i go weeks / a month without getting one. I just need to figure out what i do then that i reach so far.
    ( i havent O in like 2 years too ).
     
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  3. romlel

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    Hey man did you read the six years clean thread? maybe it can help you.
    It sees the pmo problem from TCM ;)
     
  4. Hros

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    I had the same problem for a long time, and sometimes it was worse - I'd get like four or five times a week. It was very tough. I've found that drinking tea before going to sleep helps. Mostly, I think it just takes time, and plenty of it. Recently I got to a stage where I get wet dreams every 1-3 weeks on average, even without drinking tea.
     
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  5. Grey is colourless

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    Hi! I can try send you transmission of solar energy. Maybe in a week or two, I'm in holiday atm. Pm me and I will send you my google hangouts or something, we can talk more there.


    Program yourself. Inside you are sleeping/drunk and deep, it branches. Intention is your power.
     
  6. stoneyman22

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    I've had some success in containing the nocturnal emissions AKA wet dreams.
    Last night I had a very odd dream I was in my Mom's bathroom with a chick who was totally naked but letting me have my way with her except I only remember ever really having the bottom half of her body in focus. I was enjoying myself not realizing I was in a dream until the point came where I thought of penetrating the female body and realized it was not what I wanted to do. All without realizing I was asleep mind you, this happens to me once in a blue moon where I have dreams of this erotic nature and simply 'stop' myself from performing the act which I know will lead to O.

    This has also happened in reverse where I've been unable to control my urge in the dream and then woke up wet or even woke up wet without remembering ever having a dream. Usually I remember at least something about what I was experiencing in the dream though and I think the answer to helping contain yourself is to better connect your waking mind with the subconscious or dream mind. The way I've found of doing this is through meditation on a daily basis. Also along with the meditation feed your mind with helpful materials that will bring about growth to your mind and spirit.

    Whatever interests you will be the best thing to start with. Information is like food for the mind so choose wisely what you will consume and try to find what suites your taste.
    I hope this helps
    - with love, your NoFap brothamon
     
  7. Vinay011

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    Please also sends me..
     
  8. ASABOVESOBELOW

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    Sleep on your side with legs slightly overlapping at the ankles (slaying the white dragon in Taoist monk terminlogy), purchase Shizandra berries and make them into a tea, drink a cup every day.

    These 2 things alone will provide great benefit.
     
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  9. gutehuk

    gutehuk Fapstronaut

    What's the real issue with wet dreams? I think it means you are working just fine and/or don't have sex very often. It's normal. I'd really like to have them at this moment of my life hahhaha. I don't have a real sex drive for a long time and it's making me seriously depressed.
     
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  11. stoneyman22

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    Kegel all day erryday brah
    get those massive dick muscles lol
     
  12. Have you been tested for any medical problems on your kidneys? Cause that could be a reason why you're wetting the bed. Your last sentence pretty much sums up on you giving up on lust, porn & the fantasies. Also part of this reminds me of an episode from George Lopez where his son Max had the early signs of kidney disease and by getting him checked out it helped him in the log run within the show.
     
  13. stoneyman22

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    hes not pissing the bed lol has little to nothin to do wit kidneys. try to smoke more weed that always helps no matter whats wrong
     
  14. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    Its normal for you, some guys have them more frequent than others. We are all not the same. We all don't ejaculate at a certain time of the day or ejaculate the same amount, same color, texture, smell, etc. It that was the case then we all can tell you, bro that is not normal you suppose to have them Once every month like every man does. But that is not the case. I know its a hassle cuz you have to clean up the mess but trust me its a blessing since you are getting constant relief. It makes you easier to do NoFap. Try not to focus on this issue and embrace it. A lot of guys out there hardly have at least 1 in a month and have no relief what so ever during their goal. Consider your self lucky and fortunate. Your body is working perfectly fine, your just a heavy cummer and girls or dudes ( whatever is your sexual preference ) is going to love you.
     
  15. DesertExplorer

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    My questions to you are: Are you aware during the orgasm? If yes, how do you feel about it? Does it make you terrified or do you observe yourself being indifferent?
     
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