I came on too strong

I hste dating so much...

 

Congratulations on your date OP!

 

Yep this is one of the many parta of why dating can really suck. So I often had 3-4 girls going when trying the Tinder thing (because girls do the same) with the internet there is always a more promising option. Youre damn if you do and damned if you don't. Relax and rry to take joy in the dating process, be a little more selfish and go into a date with the intent to enjoy yourself whether or not you two are compatible (dont exclusively pander to her) and hopefully timing will click (and hope you also dont swipe on her friend).
Gotta be willing to let a girl go and then she may reopen the possibility.

 

Very true...phone conversations when irl is not possible is very important.
I always try to get a phone call in first before wasting time and money on a tinder type date...also try to avoid too many texts prior to calling.