I CAN NO LONGER QUIT DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO (femdom)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Freedomseaker, Dec 11, 2019.

  1. Fenix Rising

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    It's all up to you. No one will come and save you, not even the best shrink in the world. You either choose to become a man who is willing to face his pain or keep runnig away from yourself and continue to live in addiction rabbit hole for another decade or two until your life is ruined. When you say "I can't beat it", you're accepting defeat in advance. You have to say to yourself "bring it on, whatever it takes, I will break the chains" and believe it 100%. Getting out of addiction is war where in order to win you must be willing to finally face your inner demons and stand the ground no matter how painful and fearful it gets. "Fall down seven times, stand up eight." Life of an addict is not worth living. "It's better to die on your feet than live on your knees." Never, ever give up!
     
  2. Fat PP

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    This is a great motivation to chase life...
     
  3. ZenAF

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    Forget about delta-fosb. All that concept is good for is to be used as an excuse. You have free will, you have the power to make a choice. After you made the choice to quit it doesn't mean that your addicted brain won't keep suggesting to watch porn. But that's all it does, suggesting. To actually go ahead and pmo you need to make the choice to do so. Your little delta-fosb can't force you to do nothing.
     
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  4. fedmom

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    I agree but it's very hard nonetheless. Another thing is femdom porn can cause mental damage when you get out of the addiction.
     
  5. Freedomseaker

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    Yes so how do i do that? It's true i feel like an animal... I lose control over myself. The only solution to my problem is throwing away my computer...
     
  6. Freedomseaker

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    So little update after 10 days.

    Since cold turkey didn't work for me after several tries...

    I made the content of my P softer to gradually build off and be femdom free to start. I only M to pics of non-nude women... I must say it seems to help a little. I was really feeling a difference after a couple of days... I have less dirty thoughts in my mind and less desire to be humiliated... Women seem to have less power over me...

    This was feeling good... I told myself if i continue with this for a little longer i can finally let the pics go and be PMO free... But then suddenly yesterday i got urges again and instead of M to soft pics i made the mistake of watching femdom P!!

    Guess what? It felt really intense and i edged and O 3-4x... Basically M all night for hours again... I really need to quit this i'm so fucking tired of it it's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    It seems like every time i'm sad i have the urge to be/feel like a loser and just give in to PMO.
     
    Last edited: Dec 21, 2019
  7. fedmom

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    Try 5-htp tablets but look out for the side-effects.
     
  8. angelpart

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    I believe in the power of radical decisions. Get rid of your computer, get rid of your smartphone and get a dumbphone (no wifi/internet). Get rid of your TV if it triggers you. Basically cut off all access to P.
    At least in the beginning. I feel this helps immensely. P is just one click away, so easily available that it can be very hard to resist.
     
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  9. Freedomseaker

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    Problem is that i need my computer to do my job...
     
  10. angelpart

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    Do you work from home ? If so I can see how that could be a problem. I would look for ways to not have a computer at home.
     
  11. Freedomseaker

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    I have to find another solution having a computer at home is a must for me.
     
  12. LavaMe

    LavaMe Fapstronaut

    If you really are like an animal then no one can help you. We certainly can’t reason with you to help you stop your negative behavior since animals don’t reason. But you are only like an animal. You have let your passions take control over you. You can be more like a man but that will take time. It will take time to slowly reverse the damage of allowing yourself to live like an animal.

    You are the one who suggested getting rid of your computer would be the only way. That may well be true. And you may indeed need your computer for your job. So you have to decide which is more important, being addicted to PMO or having this particular job. If having this particular job is more important then you’re going to continue to be a PMO addict.

    I get where you are coming from. I need a computer for my work. But I’ve also locked down my devices and given my wife the passcodes. If that wasn’t enough then I too might need to decide if I want my particular job more than I want to be free from PMO. Making radical changes isn’t easy. But if we have serious, deep problems then we may need to make major changes. If you really think about it if forty years from now you are still deep into PMO will all the things you wouldn’t give up to help you quit this addiction have been worth it?
     
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  13. Kligor

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    What to tell you man,i m femdom addict too,i understand how hard it is to leave.Everyone here want to quit porn(All the types) and they will,you must believe in yourself,you must say i can,i will do it just watch me,be proud of yourself.When i was quit femdom i was in 40-60 days of flatline that was time when i wanted to die,even after flatline i was like in hangover,i understand you,almost everyone here understand you,because we all go across the similar situation,i wish you the best,choice is yours.
     

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