I can't cum during sex im 27

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Maurices, May 8, 2020.

  1. Maurices

    Maurices New Fapstronaut

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    I've had this problem since i was 17. The only time I've cum with a girl is when was like 13 from a hand job.

    I thought is was just something that i had to deal with and it was just something i couldn't do. I was always kind of shy and also had weird shit goin on from my childhood years so i just it was just my norm.

    I found nofap in 2013 at 20 years old. I saw posts about de and delayed ejaculation but never really thought it applied to me. The term delayed i thought meant they could O eventually. My case was i couldn't O at all, ever.

    It wasn't til id say about the last year i found it was possible to beat DE. I've heard people say 2 weeks 10 weeks 6 months, but they were eventually healed. Me knowing that it's possible helps me be a little more patient when trying O during oral sex or sex. I feel my self getting close but it just doesn't budge. Im not sure if it's performance or what but i doubt its that.

    Has anyone beaten their DE (Delayed ejaculation). How long did it take.
     
  2. Free your mind

    Free your mind Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the forum.
    It's indeed delayrs ejaculation (inability to orgasm in a reasonable amount of time and effort). Doesn't matter if you achieve it in the end or not.

    You did not mentioned your history regarding porn usage, posibility of addiction and so on.
    Orgasm is highly dependent on arousal and dopamine sensitivity. If you are using porn often to masturbate and orgasm, that is almost certainly the culprit. I had (have) the same issue, many people here have the same issue. PIED is similar (a bit worse in effect), the causes are completely the same.
    Regaining dopamine sensitivity via abstaining is the only cure.
    Lots of information here, take the time, read it, educate yourself as much as you can and you will see your way of getting better.
    It is achievable of course, just needs patience and dedication.
     

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