Where do I start... I've been into NoFap for quite some time now, had a few resets during the streak, but at long last I did it, I started talking to a girl, a few weeks ago. Long story short, we are now together. The problem here is, I can't get hard during foreplay with her. I'm a 21 year old virgin and I can't get hard. Is she attractive enough? Yes, I fantasise about her sometimes etc. She was going down on me, can you imagine, this has always been the dream, I've always wanted this. But I wasn't hard, I did not get an erection, so I stopped her and said, that I was too stressed, The amazing girlfriend she is, she understood and we cuddled afterwards and fell asleep. The thing is, when we were kissing, I had a hard time enjoying it. I was more thinking of what I should do, I wasn't mentally there. So I looked it up and it could be that I have spectatorism or performance anxiety? Perhaps one of you guys had this same issue? I feel like I don't have any sexual desire anymore because of the NoFap. Anyhow, This Saturday we will try again. My Regards.