I crave way more s*x than the average man

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fixmybrain, Sep 21, 2020.

  1. Fixmybrain

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    It’s like I’m not even using s*x as a way to get away from my ‘problems’. I’m just straight up addicted and it turns girls away. What’s the point of even dating? All I think about is getting in their pants. My game is good I’d say but I’m just way too h*rny all the time. So fckn annoyed by this.

    (I’m in my mid 20s if that helps)
     
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  2. Fixmybrain

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    I’ve tried suppressing it but it doesn’t seem to work. Will NoFap get rid of this neediness or desperation? I always get jealous of my friends whenever they’re getting action (I just got out of a sexually active relationship too) this isn’t normal
     
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  3. Yes NoFap helps a lot with an extremely high libido. I have had a 30 day streak, reset and am now on an 8 day streak and I can report that I spend so much less time thinking about sex or porn. At the beginning of my reboot I was getting porn flashbacks all the time, and before I started I would fantasise all the time.

    Of course I still think about it because I'm a human male, it's natural, but it's not as obsessive as before. Now I have a really high libido in the mornings that drops off during the day unless there is a reason to get turned on.
     
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  4. Fixmybrain

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    i’m glad to hear this. I fapped tonight (without pron) because my mind was just going insane from lack of women/intimacy or whatever. I just want to feel content in my own skin again and not have so many DESIRES & wants. Good riddance. I want to rely on myself for happiness & pleasure. Not women & s*x
     
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  5. NoFap might help but some people just have a really high libido. It couldn't hurt to try.
     
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  6. palindromo

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    Yes , but you have to beat at lest 2 weeks , the first days libido rises , paradoxically. Near day 8 libido is really high due to testosterone , then it diminish

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    Don't touch yourself , lose that habit
     
  7. Αλέξανδρος

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    After I started my Nofap streak I stopped thinking about boobs, asses and sex all the time.
    When I see a girl I just see her face, her eyes, her elegance, her intelligence, the way she moves.
    Sometimes I felt so passive that I doubted about my sexuality.
    But when I kiss a girl, when I have a close interaction with them, I just rediscover my apparently "lost" sexuality.
    And I just understand that it's always there, hidden inside me, ready to be used when necessary.

    That's how it should be.
    A high sexuality is only toxic, you would start to think about sex when talking to a girl, but even when working, studying, going out with your friends, doing sport.
    That just consumes you.
    It is all caused by excessive masturbation.
    You watch porn every day, you start thinking life is all about sex and high libido.

    So, the moral of the story is: Start practising NoFap and change your messed up sexuality.
     
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  8. DiscT365

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    Flash backs are indeed a struggle. Got to counteract those thoughts though.
     
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    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klüver–Bucy_syndrome

    Give this a look too.

    I suggest not going to Nofap in search of a diagnosis or a solution. To your problem. As everyone on here will try to sell you on Nofap (Which is very good for sexual heath) and most people on here don't have clinical experience or the knowledge to give you safe advice.
     
  11. It's tough because it's a strong primal need and it requires a lot of effort to regain control but by giving yourself even just a month away from porn and sex fantasies will be enough to break the cycle if you are anything like me. You're on the right track with that line of thinking, the only person you need to satisfy is yourself and the best way to do that is to prove to yourself that you don't need porn or constant arousal and you are in control. It's a powerful feeling, also be mindful about your thought patterns, self-shaming only makes you more miserable and lowers your ability to fight back. Fill your thoughts will hopes for the future and goals that you want to accomplish and work towards them, makes for a happier life.
     
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  12. Gladiator1903

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    Bro,just remember one thing you should have sex it shouldn't be like sex is having you ,try reading books or art do anything that will take you into a highly focused state where you think nothing but the task at hand and then think is it required to spend so much energy on sex you'll find the answer
    I'll definitely recommend that
     
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    Definitely bring this up to a professional, bro (I recommend some who specializes in sex addiction/disorders)

    It happens, man. We all have our vices. Nofap is great, but you should try professional help. You could have past traumas or other things that contribute to your issues.

    Good luck, man.
     
  15. Fixmybrain

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    Thank you for your words. Exactly, you can’t escape nature. I suppose this is why strip clubs exist
     
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    Lack of s*x & women turns me into a monster. I just want to pump iron and hit walls due to the frustration.
     
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  17. Damaged_Stoic

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    Yeah definitely should talk to someone professional.

    I can relate to those feelings. Sex is such a powerful force in our lives to the point where it can control people (As we see on this forum).

    There are even sects of people who believe in it spiritually. If it won't trigger you look up Aleister Crowley, a very interesting guy, but that's beside the point. Usually, that desire for sex comes from something deeper, hidden in your unconscious thought. Dream analysis and therapy can help unlock that.

    Look into Carl Jung too (Not Jordan Petersen because it's extremely basic - Academy of Ideas is a good starting point)
     
  18. better123

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    A different angle:
    I was reading hill's book : Think and Grow Rich, chapter the mystery of sexual transmutation...
    He says most of the american successful men were highly sexed in nature....he says:s sees people with high sexed nature "need to be watched " and calls such people as "cursed", but being highly sexed is a " blessing" after you realise sexual transmutation. Such people when they turn their physical expression of sex into a higher Level of creativity, they become Genii"...
    Not exact words...
    Hope this helps
    So find some other pathways to deal the energy....
     
  19. Sacred Fire

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    Pumping iron... And how promiscuous/shameful women dress today makes it much harder.

    Male sex drive is being artificially hyperstimulated VIA media as it is...

    (Trigger warning). Now I used to train pro... U combine this plus high t and female labia and asscrack pants.... Any man will have extreme difficulty with temptation...

    My philosophy here... Males are being hijacked without knowledge and VISUALLY A$$AULTEd. Our reptilian brain actually reacts to the fertile female before we even realize.... So actually it's very perverse here. Bring this knowledge into your awareness... In gym you will see how violent the labia pants actually are.

    The end goal would be to sexually enslave men into some form of vagina drooling beast...

    Cheers
     
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