I defeated my Fetish...I defeated Femdom

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by IdefeatedFemdom, Nov 28, 2021.

  1. IdefeatedFemdom

    IdefeatedFemdom New Fapstronaut

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    So ever since I was 12, I have been addicted to watching Femdom, in the beginning it was nothing special just reverse cowgirl then it got intense eventually getting me into bdsm and then much worse stuff by the time I turned 18, it had destroyed a part of me...it didnt kill me tho. I was like this is enough, So for the first week instead of going NoFap, I went a differnet route forcing myself to empty my nut to not even like male dominated porn but rather amatuer couple porn like somewhat real and slow stuff and it worked, eventually it started turning me on and one month later from that point I am now disgusted by femdom and I finally did it after 5 years of struggling...I was 13 when I first realized how unnatural and disgusting femdom was...If you think that this is kink shaming then feel free to look at other posts but there are guys like me who got poisoned by Femdom and while my story is not a cure, it can be a medicine.
     
  2. Quezatolah

    Quezatolah Fapstronaut

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    Nice man, this might be the way to go for people with different fetishes and genres they want to change.

    Perhaps I can even use this to other things besides pmo like studying.
     
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  3. One problem is that you may simply be replacing one with another.
    At one point all of those things you mentioned had been my 'go-to' choice for a while. Maybe it even goes in a circle, when younger I didn't see the attraction in shit like femdom, suddenly it got 'interesting'. Maybe because I must have viewed most things in my chosen niches, or that the standard stuff was no longer arousing.

    Truth is after a while once you get used to stuff then you get de-sensitized to it, thus you end up searching for new things. That process is unconscious, you don't even realise it is happening.

    Best way is just to get rid of them all completely if you are of the disposition that ends up binging on it. It's a bit like an alcohlic giving up vodka and switching to beer.
     
  4. captainteemo

    captainteemo Fapstronaut

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    I agree the addiction and the search for a biggerr dopamine hit never stops some people progress to child porn, animal, or rape its a dangerous place to be.
     
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  5. I'm addicted to femdom porn too.
    To be honest, I was a submissive guy way before I watched porn.
    Im a virgin and i like being trampled and kiss feet, this is my sexuality.
    I tried many times to recondition my mind, to act like a "normal" guy but it didn't work.
     
  6. im_done

    im_done Fapstronaut

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    Kink shaming is perfectly fine. Anyone who thinks otherwise has to be some sort of deviant.
     
  7. seanc

    seanc Fapstronaut

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    Congrats on reaching your goal. Do you have a goal to rid your life of porn completely now?
     
  8. I don’t understand escalation because of porn, you are into this stuff so what ?
     

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