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I don’t know what to do

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Searcher123, Jan 10, 2020.

  1. Searcher123

    Searcher123 Fapstronaut

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    I speak with a transwoman, and I don’t know if I should meet her or not?

    I didn’t fap for 4 days.
    But I don’t know how it will make me feel meeting one, because I stopped the sissy and the transwoman porn.

    I need an advice.
     
  2. Searcher123

    Searcher123 Fapstronaut

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    I cancelled the meeting for now, I overcome my sensation.

    she is one of the prettiest things I’ve seen, but I already understood I’m having a problem.
    If it only was fucking and letting go no problem.
    But it will be worst,
    It will open the gate again.

    for now I’m struggling, a lot.

    I hope I won’t send her a message later on today.

    this is a big test for me.
     
  3. ZiguShar

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    drop all the sissy porn and transwoman porn for a while...

    then meet her and see if you enjoy being with her and having sex with her.

    if you do, then cool something new you like! plenty of men love being with femboys or transwomen...

    if you dont enjoy it , if you cant get hard, or derive pleasure, then most likely you were induced to think you would due to the videos you watched . sexually charged videos which would interest lots of men ok ... you became curious with it and thats normal and human. we are drived by sensuality, sexual tension and curiosity as men.

    so grow some balls, be a man, go see one, and see for yourself. no one else can do it for you.
     
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  4. Searcher123

    Searcher123 Fapstronaut

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    I’ve met already more than 50 transwoman in my life.
    I love the sex with them.

    she is an escort sry if I didn’t mention that.

    I’m addicted.

    I didn’t meet yet.

    and I didn’t fap for 5 days now.
     
  5. ZiguShar

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    more than 50 ? so, we clearly have a pattern of you doing something with some people that you LOVE to do.

    how exactly do you distinguish doing something that you like , often and a lot , simply because you really love it ( in your case sex with a transwoman ) or having an addiction ? has anyone diagnosed you with an addiction ? a psychologist etc ...

    my point being, if you really love it , in person, with your full sense and touch , and real actual intercourse... then it wanst just some porn motivated curiosity / obsession....

    perhaps you would like having a transwoman for a girlfriend? have you ever developed any feelings for any of them ?
     
  6. Searcher123

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    Never have I had feelings for any of them.
    I look at them just as sex.

    most of them I paid to be with.

    I guess having sex with them is okay, but it opens the gate for sissy and transwoman porn which makes me feel bad.

    I keep thinking about the sex even when I work, and it distracts me badly.
     
  7. Searcher123

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    And I never went to psychologist.
    Only one person in the world knows about it.
    It’s a girl and she accepted it as normal.
     
  8. Luvspin68

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    So after you have sex with them you feel shame and disgust?

    What is holding you back from actually forming a relationship with one?

    are you already in a relationship?
    Are you ashamed?
    Do you see yourself wanting kids?

    just trying to figure out how best to help you sort your situation out.
     
  9. Luvspin68

    Luvspin68 Fapstronaut

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    Searcher123.......
    Also you said 2 different things.....
    “ you Love the sex with them”
    And “the sex is ok”

    can you see yourself Never having sex with a transwoman again?
     

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