I don’t watch porn

Dunno, for me, 90 days was a good number.

 

Yea I’d say 90 days. I’ve made it 48 days before,but once I relapsed it was right back to square one.

 

At least 90 days. Then you can say with some certainty, though not as an absolute, that you don't look at porn.

 

One way to look at it like an alcoholic. Your always a porn addict but in recovery
I’m porn free since 2009 but could fall right back on it some days

 

This is opinion-based.

My personal opinion would be that if you happen to see something pornographic (or a potential trigger such as nakedness in a movie), you don't react to it all.

Then I'd say that you are someone who doesn't watch porn.

As I say, that's just an opinion, not a statement of fact.

 

Agree
I have a statement I use a lot
It’s not a problem
Unless it’s a problem

 

What do you mean by "react"? I think your view might be too radical..

 

But if you didn't smoke for six years and smoke one today than you aren't addicted (yet). Only if you fall back into doing it regularly

 

I would say you become a person who doesn't watch pornography if you do not look for it and if you catch a glimpse of it you would look away knowing that you shouldn't do it.

 

You can say it at any point. It's a positive affirmation. The point is to get your self-concept into the state of not being a porn user, regardless of how many days you haven't been a porn user. You can say it on day 1 or day 0 for that matter. The point is that you're aligning your self-image with the goal, so you're not just someone with a goal. You're a person who does or does not do specific things, from now on.

 

That's the difference between a reset and a relapse, as documented on this site. One mistake makes a reset. Falling back into the addiction makes a relapse.