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I don't believe I am gay, but I want to see your opinion on this

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Marcuston, Aug 4, 2018.

  1. alphamale2003

    alphamale2003 Fapstronaut

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    Dude you are not gay (Not that there is anything wrong with that if you were) the issue is stop watching porn. All porn gay porn, straight porn, bestiality porn. You will be a better person without it. A better student. Just an all around better person.
     
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  2. Are you serious? What is wrong with being gay?
     
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  3. Supination

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    I hope you're joking.
     
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  4. Insulting gay members in the community is nasty! :mad: Although some members have HOCD (so a reboot will help them), others do not. Some have had gay thoughts and homosexual fantasies before they started puberty. It's all they've known.
     
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  5. dragonaire

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    The answer is at your biology. A gay man falls in love with men, and a bi man falls in love with both gender and a str8 man falls in love with women, and it's usually hardwired in the brain from birth. Its more reliable than just sexual desire because everyone use to fuck with everyone, but not everyone compromises or falls in love with anyone
     
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  6. Jackb97

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    I don't agree with this fully but I think there is a lot of gay dudes out there that made their selves gay.
     
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  7. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    The key point is to do a reboot, so that your mind will revert to its original healthy factory settings. Then you will know for sure, personally, I don't think the OP needs to worry, sounds like an unwanted fetish.
     
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  8. FFS man, you aren't gay, chill lmao. If you were gay, you would probably be getting turned on in middle/high school at the sight/thought of guys...I think. Idk how that works.

    That's my guess though, since I know I got ironclad at the sight of girls in middle/high school, and I assume that's how it would work the other way as well.
     
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  9. Healed!

    Healed! Fapstronaut

    So why would you even question if you’re gay if you are not attracted to guys? It’s not the kind of thing you try out to see if you like it. Has there been something else that has made you wonder if you’re wired that way?
     
  10. newThom

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    Why did you feel the need to test yourself by watching gay porn? Are you attracted to men? Are you unattracted to having the thought of sec with a real woman? Are you turned off by the though of a relationship with a real woman?
    If you answer YES, it could be that porn has skewed your concepts of sex & attraction or your not as straight as you thought. But you’ll never know until you quit porn altogether. Ask yourself the same questions after you reboot, I bet you’ll get more confident answers.
     
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  11. uh huh, ok.....

    This...

    and this....


    Unless it's the concept - sometimes seen in the culture - that anybody could be gay if they tried it or were exposed to it. (Like the scene near the end of "American Beauty"). I happen to think that concept is complete BS.
     
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  12. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    Wouldn't be able to watch gay porn...I had a look for like 10 seconds and I was disgusted by it, literally had a bad face expression hehe..so maybe you could be Bisexual and you don't know about it yet.
     
  13. Casperr

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    My question is how do you react to straight porn? If you react more to straight porn then I don't think you're gay, bisexual maybe? but an even better question than that is do you see yourself actually dating a man?
     
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  14. Interesting point. I would say that becoming aroused by seeing male genitalia is also due to seeing so much pornography. I'm trying to clean my brain.
     
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  15. You've probably just watched a lot of pornography featuring penises and now your damaged brain is requiring you to search for novelty. Apparently stopping porn videos, pictures(even attractive clothed females), and sexual fantasies will eventually lead to a cleaner, more natural outlook. And it's of course ok to be a little bi...or even gay!
     
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