I don't love my situation but I love myself

We all know that appreciation can get you the satisfaction you're craving. But what if there's no real feeling of appreciation because you hate your life? And that moment when you think you can't appreciate your life because you don't like the way it is right now is when you should read this.

Don't make your situation your identity. "I don't have money" "I can't get laid" "Everything goes wrong" "I have no friends". Those things may be your situation but they are not YOU. And what makes YOU is that individual person with those individual skills and with that individual personality.

Remember that your situation is temporary, as your identity is long lasting. If you want to be in a different situation start seeing yourself as the facilitator of your own luck. The law of cause and effect. Change the cause and you'll get the effect.