I don't really know how to call this thread

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by sxtxe, Jul 14, 2019.

  1. sxtxe

    sxtxe New Fapstronaut

    I apologize in advance if my grammar is wrong. I am not from an anglophone country.

    So, I am new to this community, really... I'm on day 15 of NoFap and this is my first try, taking it like an experiment I want to go through just to see what happens. I decided to do this challenge although I never had serious problems or addictions to masturbation or porn, you could say I was just a "regular user".
    I am totally sure that this is a common topic, but I want to share it anyway because I've got basically no one to talk about it: this abstinence is starting to giving me sadness. I am beginning to be not really that upbeat anymore like I used to be.
    "So, if you weren't an addict and you were fine with your life, why would you start a program like this?" I honestly thought that this challenge would be a cool start towards the process of finding a girlfriend. I also have problems about being not good looking, inadequate or awkward in social situations, and generally I am not taken too seriously by other people (particularly of the opposite sex). I did some research on YouTube videos about this topic (ok, maybe that wasn't the smartest thing to do) (or maybe it was?) and I decided to give this theory the benefit of the doubt. Like I said before, I'm just trying.
    Basically what I wanted to ask you all is this. Is this just a phase? Is this gonna last if I hold on?
    If you have (or had, that's what I sincerely hope) situation like mine, I want you to feel free to share them and I am very curious.

    Also, this is my first post here and I wanted to congratulate you all, you're a dope community. Have a nice day.
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!

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