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I excessively masturbate to porn and cam models and my penis feels limp always.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by helpmefromaddiction, Apr 8, 2019.

  1. helpmefromaddiction

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    I cannot go on without a day of jerking off and viewing pornography and cam girls when its available. I keep jerking of to porn and spend money on cam girls even though i know the consequences to them and how it can negatively impact on your mental, physical, psychological, spiritual and emotional health. My dick is so small and limp that it can't only get aroused or even erect... when i view bond to a phone screen or laptop screen whenever i crave it or something that triggers me into viewing it i use the would erect loosely because i cannot get erect and aroused like i use to anymore and it feels like this forever. I feel like my dick doesn't have enough blood flow in the vessels to even let it be naturally erect. I read about things like semen retention and sexual transmutation. About how its important for your health to not jack off and the benefits like increase in semen volume, increase in testosterone, increase in libido and the list goes on and also for sexual transmutation when you turn your sexual energy into doing something that gives you drive and motivates you to do better with your life. I'm gonna post this and look back and see if I see myself and you guys take me seriously because i keep slipping back and i'm tired of fighting but i have to have faith and believe that in the process of being committed and disciplining my self away from those distractions and focusing to
     
  2. you already know what to do Mr Warrior. You have worn yourself out. Stop fighting it. The more you fight the more your brain pays attention to it, the more it fights back.
    Sleep, paint, walk, climb a steep hill, go to a buddhist temple, bake a cake, go to a huge warehouse and find something to make, but focus on something else and the cloud will pass.
     
  3. DeepSeaDiver

    DeepSeaDiver Fapstronaut

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    Your body is craving a reset. Commit to a time, and don’t hive in to the urges of signing on P.
    Getting adjusted to not doing it is going to be challenging for the first few to several days. You will need to have a list of activities to distract yourself as well as a disruption to your normal schedule. If you normally want to do it before bed, you will need to build activities around that time so you don’t relapse.
    As far as being flaccid while watching p and cam models.....this happens when your body is craving more and not satisfied. You are 20, so all of your normal responses will come back, you just need to give the PMO a rest.
     
  4. You're not alone. I had the camgirl thing as well. I even let myself get into serious financial debt but I kept spending on it. Sounds like you know how much damage this is causing you, but I was the same -- it took me about 18 months before I committed that I need to make a change.

    I haven't been perfect, but this year I've definitely taken back control, and I don't have the same compulsion to click on camgirls like I used to. I feel happier because of it, though I still have a long way to go.

    The only real advice I can give you is to stop. It's not as straightforward as that, I know -- but once you change the mentality, even if you fail, you'll come back so much better. And then what was a daily habit slowly becomes a weekly one, and that weekly habit slowly becomes a monthly one. And before long you realise you don't really need it, and you're moving in the right direction.

    Good luck!
     
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  5. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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  6. Vilkas

    Vilkas Fapstronaut

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    Stop masturbation and porn just for 1
    day, try it
    just try 1 day and you can masturabte after but you must stop masturabtion during 2 or 3 days. it's seems that you are really addicted to this shit. just like me. i know it's very hard but you can do it. You can spent 2, 3, or 5 days without masturbation and porn. It's a difficukt recovery, it will take some times to get rid of this shit but you can do it.
    If you want to try it just one day, go outside all day, walk, make sports, all day until you are really tired, and sleep.
    good luck friend
     
  7. cedelirent

    cedelirent Fapstronaut

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    How long will this take please help
     
  8. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    Start with 90 days and go from there. You have rubbed yourself raw.
     

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