I fear sexting , causing the other girl to sin. it might weaken her or something in this satanic realm. but i also want to connect with her, i tell myself maybe connecting with me is ultimately good, break even or something. i think though, it's really bad for girls. we don't talk about the effect it has on girls. what if she becomes horny and gets in bed with a guy she wouldn't have if she hadn't become horny? how would that alter her fate? probably not for the best. I am sometimes paralyzed with guilt about this, it is probably my greatest fear, worse than dying honestly. but my urge to have at least some kind of love/intimacy with them is equally powerful.