I feel ashamed for being attracted to fat women.

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Ever since I was 9 years old I was attracted to fat women [This was not porn induced] I was at a party with my family and I saw a fat woman who I thought was very attractive yet I spent years trying to keep this "desire" hidden especially from my mother who claims to be progressive and forward thinking but she was (and still is) very disrespectful to fat women. I thought this "desire" of mine would help me be rebellious for being attracted to the very fat women she hated. I tried for many years to keep this a secret from everybody I knew both friends and relatives. But NoFap has made me comfortable opening up about my struggles I even recently asked fellow NoFap Users if there were any good places to meet fat women but all I got was troll information Like McDonald's or fat acceptance seminars. Some of the information I feel like I brought on myself because of my tendency to be very shy around women or just overthinking. Now I just feel ashamed for being attracted to fat women I should've just kept a lid on my desires to be with one. Because the one dude that was comfortable talking to me about this stopped talking to me. I should've just tried to get rid of my shyness around women and settle for a skinnier girl that doesn't excite me as much as a fat woman does. Why did I have to be attracted to Fat women in the first place? Why couldn't I just be a Normal guy that's interested in skinner women? I feel like a complete moron for trying to sort this out. I will not blame other users for this state of mind because I only have myself to blame for dragging myself into this mess.
 
That's pretty normal dude don't beat yourself up. My buddie's girlfriend's nickname was Beach ball. When he got married he called his wife "The biggun". You like what you like there's not much you can do about it. My girlfriend is not conventionally beautiful but she is awesome and if other people don't see it all the better for me. If you like something other people don't then who cares. Plus, lots of guys like fat girls. It's not abnormal.
 
Dioplleo_547 said:
Ever since I was 9 years old I was attracted to fat women [This was not porn induced] I was at a party with my family and I saw a fat woman who I thought was very attractive yet I spent years trying to keep this "desire" hidden especially from my mother who claims to be progressive and forward thinking but she was (and still is) very disrespectful to fat women. I thought this "desire" of mine would help me be rebellious for being attracted to the very fat women she hated. I tried for many years to keep this a secret from everybody I knew both friends and relatives. But NoFap has made me comfortable opening up about my struggles I even recently asked fellow NoFap Users if there were any good places to meet fat women but all I got was troll information Like McDonald's or fat acceptance seminars. Some of the information I feel like I brought on myself because of my tendency to be very shy around women or just overthinking. Now I just feel ashamed for being attracted to fat women I should've just kept a lid on my desires to be with one. Because the one dude that was comfortable talking to me about this stopped talking to me. I should've just tried to get rid of my shyness around women and settle for a skinnier girl that doesn't excite me as much as a fat woman does. Why did I have to be attracted to Fat women in the first place? Why couldn't I just be a Normal guy that's interested in skinner women? I feel like a complete moron for trying to sort this out. I will not blame other users for this state of mind because I only have myself to blame for dragging myself into this mess.
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I've seen you writing about fat women before.
Ever thought that this can be a fetish?
Maybe if you start seeing it as a fetish, you will discover where the desire comes from.

Maybe you have to sort out the being respectfull to fat women by your mother?
 
Just how fat are we talking about?

Cause (in Jimmy Carr's wise words) "can't leave the house fat" that you see in some (rather mental) reality TV shows would be more a fetish since that shit is neither healthy nor normal.

Liking a chubby girl / plus size models is actually healthy. They're pretty gorgeous ;)
 
Rents77 said:
Just how fat are we talking about?

Cause (in Jimmy Carr's wise words) "can't leave the house fat" that you see in some (rather mental) reality TV shows would be more a fetish since that shit is neither healthy nor normal.

Liking a chubby girl / plus size models is actually healthy. They're pretty gorgeous ;)
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Chubby and Plus size.
 
Dioplleo_547 said:
Ever since I was 9 years old I was attracted to fat women [This was not porn induced] I was at a party with my family and I saw a fat woman who I thought was very attractive yet I spent years trying to keep this "desire" hidden especially from my mother who claims to be progressive and forward thinking but she was (and still is) very disrespectful to fat women. I thought this "desire" of mine would help me be rebellious for being attracted to the very fat women she hated. I tried for many years to keep this a secret from everybody I knew both friends and relatives. But NoFap has made me comfortable opening up about my struggles I even recently asked fellow NoFap Users if there were any good places to meet fat women but all I got was troll information Like McDonald's or fat acceptance seminars. Some of the information I feel like I brought on myself because of my tendency to be very shy around women or just overthinking. Now I just feel ashamed for being attracted to fat women I should've just kept a lid on my desires to be with one. Because the one dude that was comfortable talking to me about this stopped talking to me. I should've just tried to get rid of my shyness around women and settle for a skinnier girl that doesn't excite me as much as a fat woman does. Why did I have to be attracted to Fat women in the first place? Why couldn't I just be a Normal guy that's interested in skinner women? I feel like a complete moron for trying to sort this out. I will not blame other users for this state of mind because I only have myself to blame for dragging myself into this mess.
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bro don't be a shame i personally like tall skinny girls
 
I also like tall skinny girls as well, and fat women It's not that I'm desperate and have low standards I just don't really have a type and open to many types of women.
 
I don't think there is anything wrong with your desire and what you like. As you noted it is not porn induced and that to me is the key thing. It's just something you've always liked. No one call tell you what you like is wrong.
 
You haven't had sex with a fat woman, after you do it you will know if you like it or not. This is only lust. Not reality.

And because you are so sexually inexperienced, probably virgin, and addicted to porn you are not able to see if this attraction is real or not without actually living through it.

I think I've seen you write this fat women thing for more than 6 months and it goes nowhere.
 
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