I feel like a failure

What's your day count, for me it's all about day count, when I'm a pathetic loser (0 days of nofap) no girl or guy wants to talk to me, I'm segregated from the "group", but when I'm at around day 60 I'm the center of attraction and everybody wants to talk to me, maybe it's just about your day count, on a good day count I get attention from each and every girl in front of me even though I'm ugly af, but I never developed the skills necessary to keep all of it going on. Here's what you have to do struggle on nofap and just keep on developing your humour, go through a lot of rejections, just keep on talking to girls and maintain a high day count so that you're always funny and Charismatic, girls don't like guys who are too clingy so just keep on moving from one girl to another. If you're so desperate of getting laid then try an escort. Nofap is the key my friend.
After 60 days of nofap you wouldn't even care about who's getting his head in who's cleavage, trust me and trust me girls will approach you if you keep moving on this nofap journey.

 

Take care of yourself first. You must want the best for yourself. Don't think about trying to be liked by girls. that is not how it works. You cannot make someone love you. Work on yourself, on your career, your grades, your health, your hobbies. Girls will come alone.
Stop acting like it is the end of the world because you have no girl. You are you asset, invest in it first.

Ditch dating coaches, WTF?

 

It sucks, man. But remember, beating yourself over is no good also.

 

School can be a difficult place at the best of times. I think most of us, even the people who everyone else thinks of as popular and cool have a whole bunch of insecurities beneath the surface. So don’t fall into the trap of believing every display you see in public is real or an expression of genuine love, because most of it isn’t!
Also, comparing yourself to a bunch of people who are probably the most fake and insincere people you could find is NOT a recipe for happiness and self worth. Quite the opposite in fact.
It is toxic to your self worth in the same way young women comparing themselves to people like Kim Kardashian and feeling like they are not popular or pretty enough is.

It may feel like everything right now, but how popular you are with girls in school counts for nothing in the grand scheme of things. No man who ever achieved anything noteworthy in life did so as result of being popular at school. In fact I would say that most of the people who went on to do well in life were socially awkward misfits who didn’t have many friends. Your worth as a person has literally nothing to do with how much attention you get from girls, so don’t devalue yourself by thinking that.

I promise you that in 10 years time when you look back at school you will laugh at how stupid and shallow it all was. And you will wish you had more fun and not bought into all that egos and status crap. If you have a bunch of guy friends then that is good, don’t knock it! Have all the good time you can, while you can. Some of them may become friends for the long term. You have literally decades ahead of you for dating and relationships. It will always be there for you.

If you want to feel happy rather than empty and like a looser then stop looking at what everyone else is doing and trying to copy. Just focus on your own life, being who you want to be, doing what you want to do and going where you want to go in life. That will set you up for a happy and successful life much better than chasing girls and trying to look cool.
If you know who you are and where you are going in life then somewhere along the road you will meet the right girl who is on that same road with you and it will all happen without you having to “break a blood vessel” lol.

Right now you should be focusing on you and doing more of what brings you a sense of purpose and joy.
Please don’t waste this precious time in your life obsessing over shallow shit that in the long run counts for nothing.
Also please do not put people on a pedestal who do not deserve to be there. Choose your idols carefully, and with intelligence and integrity.

 

It sounds like you are going through a difficult time. everything seems like it’s against you but it really isnt. I know it’s hard not to compare yourself with others but you got to stop doing that. Compare yourself with who you were before. I’m sure there’s been some improvement and if not then you can start now. Also, there’s so much ahead of you, you are so young. I admire that you are here on NoFap and working on yourself. That’s something I wish I would have done at your age. You have a lot going for you. Believe it!