I feel like such a child.

Gamers usually lacks lovelife..
You're lucky if you'll find a gamer girlfriend...

Uhmmm.. I mean..
We're lucky if we'll find a gamer girlfriend.
I also lacks lovelife
The feeelsss..

 

Few hours a week vide ogames won't be the bane of your existence, but if it turns in your existence then it becomes a problem
Games are an addiction like nofap which must be managed properly.

 

You have gamer rage. Unfortunately, you're going to have to reboot from video games as well. You can go back to them once you've healed, but never ever binge play. Keep it down to a few hours every few days and if you feel like you HAVE to play, don't.

 

I'm sorry. I did not see anywhere in the post that you mentioned that you were a serial killer, vicious bank robber or a felonious rapist.

I am being facetious because I am not following why you conclude what you do not deserve.

I'm not a gamer. Take what you want from the following.

Games to me used to Ms. PacMan, Space Invaders, Dragon's Lair, Donkey Kong and Qbert. The advantage of these games is that they were relatively quick to play and enhanced hand eye coordination.

I see two problems that you are experiencing:

1) The characters in the game are attractive and may be turning you on; and

2) Games today consist of campaigns that can go on for weeks, months and even years.

My response:

1)There is nothing wrong with finding a female Valkyrie or Elf (if these still exist) to be attractive. We watch movies and television shows where the actresses are attractive. Just realize that they are not real, nor would you (or anybody else on this forum) have any fighting chance to attract an A-list celebrity.

2) If you are not out there meeting people, you will not get a girlfriend or lose your virginity. It is not that you do not deserve it, but if you do not meet women, you will not become involved or intimate with one.

You have to get out there and meet women. If you are gaming rather than meeting people, then you will have to cut down your gaming. Do not think that you are undeserving of love and companionship. Relationships (and sex) come to those who apply themselves.

 

That's not about what you deserve, but about doing what truly makes you happy.

Do you like yourself when you're playing video games? Do you enjoy it? Does it create purpose in life for you?
Your rage quit reaction does not come from being a bad loser, but from aggression against yourself which lies deeper within you. Perhaps you can cover it with video games for a while, but it is a fissured cover. I stopped playing video games because it made me feel like I'm running in circles on the inside. I hated that.

 

The problem is you're doing a lot of unnecessary things and NOT doing other things you need to do.

It's like if I tell you: "yeah, to put together this IKEA piece of furniture, you have to hammer these 6 nails" and you keep hammering away the same first nail over and over while the rest are still waiting.

First off, please change use your meditation-enhanced mind to start focusing on a much better internal state of relaxation or just the feeling that reverses the one you're having now.

Now, watch this video:



If you truly want to change a bad habit, there are different areas you have to attack. This video divides them into Personal, Social and Structural, each having a Motivational side and a Skill side. Seems complex but it comes down to really normal stuff without having to meditate your brains off or trying to change 10000 habits at a time (huge withdrawal symptoms I bet). You can't try and control just one or two of them and letting the rest screw you.