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I feel reborn

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Joggyd, Feb 13, 2019.

  1. Joggyd

    Joggyd Fapstronaut

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    Last night, while video chatting with my girlfriend… I told her all my dirty secrets and what I believe caused me to be such a terrible person when I was younger… she didn’t judge me and simply listened… I feel privileged to have someone in my life like her...she didn’t judge me at all and was very supportive...I also told her that I am abstaining from masturbation and told her of the progress I have made...wow! I feel cleansed of so many negative emotions
     
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  2. Congratulations! It must have taken a lot of courage for you to do so. Your girlfriend must be a very rare person to have reacted in such a mature and positive way. Make sure to tell her so and to show your appreciation to her. This should not be taken for granted.
    You can do it, you can get rid of P, especially with someone so special at your side!
     
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  3. samnf1990

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    I'm glad that her response has been supportive. She might have been quiet about it so far, but she will be hurting, so make sure to ask her what she needs and how she is coping as you undergo your recovery process. Be prepared for her to have questions, and work hard on your recovery. Make her proud. Don't use her calm and supportive response as an excuse to slide back into negative behaviour.
     
  4. Good work! Nice to hear.
     
  5. ImpureHuman

    ImpureHuman Fapstronaut

    That's a bold step. Good to hear that she is supportive,,

    Good advice.

    Now, You have to earn back her trust.
    I wish for all good.
     
  6. Joggyd

    Joggyd Fapstronaut

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    I don’t a problem with porn...my biggest issue was my problematic past and my masturbation habit
     

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