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I feel so much guilt for looking at nudes

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Kai101, May 2, 2018.

  1. Kai101

    Kai101 Fapstronaut

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    I got into a conversation with this girl offering to send nudes, and you can pretty much guess what happened. I won't go into too much detail as to avoid triggering people. Anyway, I feel so guilty about doing this. This is the first time I have ever done something like this and I feel filthy and I'm scared of what I did. I won't reset my counter because I only looked for a few seconds before blocking her and deleting the app. I am just looking for some uplifting moral support. I feel awful, so any encouragement would go a long way. Thank you
     
  2. Datme

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    Hey man! It's okay you did the right thing. You didn't went into it more further. You are not filthy! Lots of people ask for nudes these days and in the end it's your own morals that decide that you think it's filthy or not.

    We of course choose this Rebooting / NoFap journey and our morals are against this but remember this is a learning process and now you know how you actually feel about women. You don't think about them being objects but as actual people.

    So be proud of yourself that you could resist the temptation! This will definitely help you with your reboot.

    You are a good man and you have my respect!
     
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  3. Kai101

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    Thank you
     
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  4. Kai101

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    You have my respect as well
     
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  5. Hitto

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    You did the right thing bro I can relate I met an amazing girl online and she would willingly send me nudes and talk dirty to her and we liked it but I realized it was slowing up my rebooting process at the time I didn't think it was porn but it was and I deleted my snap chat. But we were friends on fb and then she messaged me and asked why I wasn't on snap chat as much and I explained it to her and she totally understood even though she is in a relationship now we talk from time to time but it was amazing how I told her what I was going through and she was so understanding but I realize she is on the other side of the world so I'm not to emotionally invested but it gave me hope that there are women out there who would still desire me regardless of my faults. Don't fell guilty you are taking the right steps to overcome this and I commend you after being on 13 month steak I'm starting to believe myself more and more and from pray and my faith I have the strength to face any obstacle in front of me
     
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