I felt so perverted today. I couldn't stop looking at my friends girlfriend?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by skaterdrew, Jun 2, 2020.

  1. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    My friend and his girlfriend came up to my house earlier for a visit. They were both sitting out my back and I thought my friends girlfriend looked really sexy. I kept looking at her butt, breasts ext and just looking at her in general. I kept getting thoughts in my head of things I would love to do to her. Thoughts of having sex with her, shoving my face in her butt and breasts ext.

    But I mean obviously these are just thoughts. I wouldn't of actually done this with her even if I got the chance to, as it is one of my best friends girlfriends.

    But I just felt so horny today while looking at her, it was weird.

    Is this normal to have these sort of thoughts from time to time? Or is it just perverted?
     
    Last edited: Jun 2, 2020
  2. Chefb87

    Chefb87 Fapstronaut

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    Yes ! It absolutely is. With addiction to pornography we have spent alot of time watching videos where you are looking at the woman , and wishing you could do things to them. You're brain has been trained to look for sexual beauty , and fantasy. And now it could be spilling out into your real world.
    I know exactly what you're talking about, and I felt awful about it too. For me, being over a year in recovery, that urge to look, and stare does slow down. Youre able to control yourself more.
     
  3. Is it normal to for a guy to be sexually attracted to his best friend's girlfriend?

    Have you ever hear of a guy having sex with his best friend's girlfriend, or a girl having sex with her boyfriend's best friend? That never happens, right?? Oh wait . . . yes it does.

    Usually guy's become friends with other guys because they have a lot in common. That's why it's not uncommon for best friends to have similar taste in women. Or for a girl to be attracted to her bf's best friend. Or for a guy to be attracted to his gf's best friend.

    Just my opinion, but I think it's totally normal. Also normal to feel distressed about it. What's most important is that you don't let the shame lead you into a relapse with porn.
     
  4. CaptainFranklin

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    This sounds totally normal to me. Why would the fact that someone is dating your friend make you completely blind to whether they are attractive?
     
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  5. DyingStar

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    Being physically attracted sure, as far as having active sexual fantasies about her...I'm more inclined to say that is likely porn induced or happens to people that are constantly fantasizing.
     

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