I fight once again

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Jamaal120, Nov 30, 2018.

  1. Jamaal120

    Jamaal120 Fapstronaut

    Hi everyone,
    I struggle with PMO since 11 years, it begins to be really harmful for me in High School and during studies. "Thanks PMO" I neglected my studies and I am not sure if I'll be graduate next summer. Besides I was fired few days ago and it started to look very, very bad in my life. Last days was mostly PMO and eating junk food and drinking alcohol(not so much, but still). I lurked on r/nofap since four-five years, but nowadays it's 90% memes and it doesn't help me at all. From other things: never been in serious relationship, overweight and living alone in flat. I have some life goals, possible to reach, but currently I cannot focus on them. I start even to wonder if I have mental issues or something.

    Wish me good luck. I hope you will help me to win this fight and I wanna support you in your fight,

    Sorry in advance for my english and grammar mistakes.
  2. Welcome @Jamaal120 ,

    The struggle is daily and the soul can be week. Take heart, the sin of PMO can be overcome.

    Take it one day, one hour or one minute at a time, because PMO can rewire the brain with proven complications.

    PIED - Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction which is caused by your brain demanding the "perfect" images it sees in porn. Then, in real life things are not so "perfect" and an erection is impossible.

    DE - Delayed Ejaculation. This can be caused by medication as well, but PMO can cause delayed ejaculation during real sex also. With a brain that's rewired by PMO being used to seeing perfect images to ejaculate, real life sex might not provide enough stimulation.

    Death Grip - frequent PMO rubs on the nerves in the penis. After a time, their is some nerve damage. So, gripping a bit more firmly happens. This new firmer grip rubs deeper nerves and it works for a while. Then, those nerves are damaged. With daily pmo, the nerve damage can be extensive and PMO will just continue the cycle until ejaculation is almost impossible.

    Prone Masturbation - frequently cited as the form of masturbation that causes the most nerve damage. As opposed to manual stimulation, Prone Masturbation uses the full body weight to rub on a bed or a pillow. Most PMO experts suggest never using this form of masturbation.

    If you have a problem with PMO, you are in the right place.

    PMO destroys Mind, Body and Spirit and is a tool of evil.

    Healing through Inspiration can be found at:

    Matthew 5:30 (click for link to quote)
    Galations 5:12 (Click for link to quote)
    Matthew 19:12 (Click for link to quote)

    Never give up,

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  3. Blackberrybush

    Blackberrybush Fapstronaut

    It is a very similar story to a lot of users and my own; you are not alone. Isn’t it crazy how one bad decision of watching P can manifest into twenty different bad decisions? Now you’re staying up late, not cleaning, not working out, not coming to work on time... you slowly set yourself up for failure and don’t even know it. Personally I find strength through God to fight these temptations of PMO. I’m slowly learning that human life is meant for more than chasing fantasy. I find that when I am bored is when I am the most vulnerable to attacks from the enemy. Keep coming back and keep building up the willpower.
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