I finally made it to Day 90. I feel great. But now I have to leave NoFap.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Vir Rex, May 3, 2019.

  1. Vir Rex

    Vir Rex Fapstronaut

    Hey Fapstronauts,

    I did it. Like many others before me, I did something that I thought would be impossible.

    I made it to 90 Days without masturbation or porn.

    What started off as an exercise in restraint and productivity has honestly become the most significant change I have ever made in my entire life. I have changed so much as a person over the last three months and accomplished so many things that I thought I could never do.

    I found God. I went to Coachella (never thought I would be able to do that). I'm leaving my old career path as a politician in order to become a cartoonist, something that I've always wanted to do. I no longer hate myself. I don't objectify women, but see them as humans now. I discovered that sex isn't as important as society makes it out to be. My body doesn't hurt that much anymore.

    There are countless things that I have gained with my journey. But I also suffered a lot in order to get here.

    I started having panic attacks. I became depressed. I began thinking about death. I learned that we don't have much time left on this Earth.

    But I find that to be liberating.

    We all get trapped in our vices for so long that we don't notice when time is slipping by us faster and faster. No matter what we do, we can't get back our lost time. We can't correct our past mistakes.

    But that's okay.

    The only thing that matters is now. What this means is that we must no longer put aside our hopes and dreams, but we need to start working towards them now. We need to abandon our soul-draining jobs and stop trying to act fake to earn the approval of other fake people.

    We owe it to ourselves to start living. Because we will all be dead one day. No amount of vices or money or prestige will stop it. We can spend our limited time doing the things that we truly love instead of those that we hate.

    And it is with a heavy heart that I leave NoFap for good after today. I know this is a hard battle, but that's what Life is. We keep fighting until we're dead. I believe that you guys can win this fight. We're different from other men, who will have their entire lives slip from their fingers because they never had the guts to fight themselves. We will win this war. We have to. We can.

    Goodbye, everyone. You've helped me so much but now I have to go. I need to follow my dream in what little time I have left here. This is it. No second chances, no extra lives, no do-overs.
     
  2. vad

    vad Fapstronaut

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    I wish you the best of luck! May God Bless you my friend!
     
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  3. Vir Rex

    Vir Rex Fapstronaut

    Thank you and God Bless, vad. I don't think I would have made it this far in my life without having God as my pillar. I am nervous about this new life of mine, but I know that it will help me for the best.
     
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  4. Congratulations! All the best to you.
     
  5. a.b.c_starboy

    a.b.c_starboy Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations!! I totally agree with your words:
    I have to go a long way and your success really inspired me. All the best to you for the rest of your life.
     
  6. Thistimeitsfinal

    Thistimeitsfinal Fapstronaut

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    What a great departing message, thank you! I wish you all the best in your new life, and I too intend to walk in your shoes. God bless.
     
  7. SirErnest

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    Bravo! Thank you very much for posting. It helps.
     
  8. Tryingto

    Tryingto Fapstronaut

    This is a wonderful departing message, @Vir Rex!

    Inspiring without being overwhelming. Affirming without being preachy. Strong without being denigrating. Most of all, it comes across as true. Every day I try to find something that inspires me to continue this work. Today this something will be your post and the personal experience communicated herein.

    All the best living life to the fullest!
     
  9. !!!10years!!!?!

    !!!10years!!!?! Fapstronaut

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    thank you for sharing this inspiring story, and I am glad that you get your dream job it is like your life is on the right way, good luck!
     
  10. This is the perfect departing message and nofap is truly the perfect doctor.
    The idea is not endless rounds of medication instead just healing. Plain and simple. I wish you well and please reconsider your purpose at NoFap. Not as a patient but as a motivator or Sponsor to encourage those who are starting our journey, it is what gives hope.

    Blessings and thank you for your testimony.
     
  11. Doctorfree

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    Hey just found out about Nofap, your success is very motivating thank you
     
  12. Varg

    Varg Fapstronaut

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    Good luck mate :)
     
  13. Varg

    Varg Fapstronaut

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    Congratulation and good luck :)
     
  14. bfdet

    bfdet Fapstronaut

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    Hi @Vir Rex

    All the best to you ! And if there is room in your life for it ... please consider posting here sometimes to help others. While I'm not a strong believer in handouts, I am a strong believer in hand-ups. Your exit posting has inspired others, and will continue to inspire all who read it. For that, thank you.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     

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