I FREAKIN HATE PORN

[alloy.]

"love the people, hate the sin"​

in this thread i'm planning to gather all the reasons to hate porn.

i learned that the problem we still attached to porn is not because of loneliness and stress and other excuses.

i know it happens. i felt those too. but so does all free people.

so the difference lies in what we love and what we hate. most of us, including me, has it backwards.

so i'm here to gather everything i know on why we should hate porn.

feel free to add your personal reasons, so you get to help people like you.

 

[alloy.]

porn gets in the way of my future with amazing spouse

earlier this month, i met an amazing woman. i'm planning on getting serious with her. and i know she deserved THE man.

the one who can take care of her.
the one who can protect her.
the one who can be loyal to her.

she deserve it all. but, i'm not that man yet.

i noticed my eyes often glued to attractive women. the kind i wanna watch in porn. dressed provocatively, compelte with the naughty attitude.

i know if i want to have a future with my lovely crush, i obviosuly can't keep staring at these slutty girls.

it's crazy that i even have to contemplate on an obvious choice. the wife-material woman who will adore me, versus random provocative girl who will hurt me.

it was rigged because of porn addiction in the past.

crazy. what porn did to my judgement.

i should be attracted to character and tenderness, not revealing dress and slutty attitude.

porn messed my judgement.

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN

 

[alloy.]

porn made me mistook a terrible idea as a great one.

if you asked 7-year-old me, "would you hire a prostitute?" i'd kick your shin, punch your stomach, and bail.

but if you asked 12-year-old me. i'd think about it.

DAMN. what a difference does 4 years made?

i watched porn for the first time when i was 8. my friend showed me this porn-site from his new Sony phone. the one with a nice web broswer.

and it took me 4 more years to made me wanna try sex for real. not just masturbate in the bathroom.

and as a 12 years old, i can't possibly ask a female-friend to sleep with me. so i thought, "maybe i should hire a prostitude."

you read it right. a twelve-years-old, considering hiring a prostitude to satisfy curiosity.

THAT's what porn did to my brain.

mistook wicked and fucked up stuffs as something great.

imagine a 19 years old died of AIDS, because he went to prostitude when he was 12 years old.

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN

 

[Jason7265]

I think it is utterly crazy that an 8 year old can have access to it. It's wrong on all levels. So damaging. I have an 8 year old daughter and it's the last thing I would want her to be exposed to. Society needs to change!

 

[alloy.]

I think it is utterly crazy that an 8 year old can have access to it. It's wrong on all levels. So damaging. I have an 8 year old daughter and it's the last thing I would want her to be exposed to. Society needs to change!

EXACTLYY...

please, be close to your daughter. listen to her stories. this is the time she needs a great father figure like you the most.

protect them at all costs. we're on a war with porn. stop directing hate towards people. direct it towards porn and all other destructive behavior.

 

[alloy.]

sin breed worse sin.

i remember when i was 7, looking at women with bikinis made me excited as hell. i would giggle with my classmates at the back of the class, flipping through torn pages of non-nude magazines.

then one day, one of my friends showed me a porn-site on his brand-new Sony phone, the one with a nice web-browser.

at first i was disgusted with the site. but it didn't stopped there. the images was so vivid i kept visualizing the image. wanting to see it again, i asked my friend, what was the site called? and he told me casually like it's just facebook.

i used every resource i have to track down this site. when my mom needed to work, she would take me to an internet café. this is the golden opportunity.

i opened the site, which name i remembered so vividly. my friend only told me once, and it burned into my brain till this day.

once i opened it, the rush of excitement i longed rushing back into my mind. and i was hooked.

"i want more... i need more," said a 9 years old in an internet café across his mom's desk.

and more disgusting impulses follow, the day after, year after, and decade after. over time it gets worse.

and not only watching, i gotta do something.

i even i gave up my virginity to a woman who don't deserve my attention. just out of curiosity of how it felt to have sex.

i wish i gave mine to my wife, but i can't take it back. to my future-wife, when you read this, i'm sorry. i can't give it to you.

this is the destruction of sin. from seeing to doing.

there is no, "one last time." it is a lie.
when you feed lust, it only grows stronger.

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN.

 

[Alexiseva]

It is literally the worst, destroyed my entire image of myself from the moment I started

 

[Prophet Harry]

Porn makes people feel inadequate!

Porn is a major reason why so many young men feel like they are not enough for a woman. Porn show that in order to please a woman you need a fucking 5 foot pole down there which can't be further from the truth.

Fuck porn and their fake standards!

 

[cleaningupmyact]

...and also that you need to choke her and brutalize her and she will smile and enjoy that shit (guess what, she wont, and you wouldnt either).
porn is the antithesis of maleness and love.

 

[alloy.]

My g mila i see you have potential here,

thankyou, brother. i appreciate it.

Let me state this first we press dopamine buttons such and porn and masturbation but if we break it until it doesnt work anymore we have options for other dopamine buttons to press(healthy ones)

i agree. we need to replace bad habits first. and for me, i'd rather focus on HATING it first.

because once i truly truly HATE it, it's no longer an option for me. it can easily be replaced by something like playing sticks and stones, or coffee-making, or basic stuffs that are supposed to be fun.

The era we are in is modern dopamine warfare

Dont feel betrayed. The corrupted elites are the causes not you.

you're damn right. we're at war. and i let my guard down once. let's not repeat the same mistake.

Feeling sorry and put that into actions. Your wife will be happy that you're free from pmo. And thats all what matters,

thanks, brother. it means a lot to me.

 

[alloy.]

It is literally the worst, destroyed my entire image of myself from the moment I started

ohh tell me about it. how did porn mistreat you?

 

[alloy.]

Porn makes people feel inadequate!

Porn is a major reason why so many young men feel like they are not enough for a woman. Porn show that in order to please a woman you need a fucking 5 foot pole down there which can't be further from the truth.

Fuck porn and their fake standards!

porn raised the bar 'till no one can fulfill? THAT is loww...

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN

 

[alloy.]

...and also that you need to choke her and brutalize her and she will smile and enjoy that shit (guess what, she wont, and you wouldnt either).
porn is the antithesis of maleness and love.

FUCK THAT. every woman deserves tenderness. and it's fucked up that porn made us thought otherwise.

you know what else women enjoy, porn? ACTUAL CONVERSATIONS, FLOWERS, and a HUG from her man. stop lying to us.

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN.

 

[SleepyShade]

FUCK THAT. every woman deserves tenderness. and it's fucked up that porn made us thought otherwise.

you know what else women enjoy, porn? ACTUAL CONVERSATIONS, FLOWERS, and a HUG from her man. stop lying to us.

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN.

I really hope this is true, because one of the things I struggle with is feeling too feminine or weak and not wanting to ever cause pain or take control of my partner. But I'm worried she'll find that unattractive so I just hide away from all girls and am trying to choose a life of celibacy.

 

[alloy.]

I really hope this is true, because one of the things I struggle with is feeling too feminine or weak and not wanting to ever cause pain or take control of my partner. But I'm worried she'll find that unattractive so I just hide away from all girls and am trying to choose a life of celibacy.

oh it is true. feel free to ask any woman. they'll gladly tell you what they want from a man.

men are supposed to be hunters. we study what makes woman stay, and be the man for her.

my life is a testimony and proof. everything porn told you about what women want is a lie.

by the way, at some point i did ask some fine women (the type you wanna marry): does size matter?

and they answer in unity: it does to a certain degree (average is great). as long as you have the character of a Godly man, she'll be grateful for whatever you offer.

 

[cleaningupmyact]

I really hope this is true, because one of the things I struggle with is feeling too feminine or weak and not wanting to ever cause pain or take control of my partner. But I'm worried she'll find that unattractive so I just hide away from all girls and am trying to choose a life of celibacy.

speaking from experience, yes. sometimes confidence is necessary to get your foot in the door. but what keeps a good woman around is often treating her well. Theres a lot of pressure on women to be the "submissive" one wanting an "alpha male" and all that BS. but bring your mutual crush some flowers and watch her light up. People want to be treated well, that fake kinky shit gets real old, real quick.

 

[alloy.]

porn runs on pure, innocent soul.

at first i thought porn only affects young men or women out there. converting them to be brainless consumer.

but i just learned from a story of a former OnlyFands model. and it is actually started because older men found her on her instagram. these men flooded her instagram with lustful attention. she thought this is what she want. and these men offered to pay her to start posting on OnlyFans.

damn. this is a self-sustaining chain of curse.

1. porn destroy boys, by selling them lies and fake excitement.
   and these broken-boys grew up as broken-men.
2. these broken-men hire self-conscious young women,
   by telling them to seek validation through pornography.
3. and these pornography is targeted for new-generation boys.

and so, the curse-cycle sustain itself.

by the end, who's the real winner? porn itself.
who's losing? EVERYONE.

THIS IS WHY I HATE PORN.