I get erection for my own feet

You need to give yourself some time to overcome this addiction

 

surely, it will.

 

Keep your shoes and socks on.

 

Many among us are attracted to the same or similar things. It is important to understand why you're attracted to this kind of stuff.
From your posts, it seems that you're attracted to "giantess/feet fetish" and femdom or how you call it "Women torturing fetish", too.
When you search your mind and find reason/s, why are feet, their smell and domination so important for you, those fetishes will gradually start to fade away and they won't be so "magical" anymore, but they won't disappear completely! To make them go forever you'll have to work on causes that led to this mild sexual deviation. (Maybe word deviation sounds harsh - but this is minor deviation).
I can tell you, from my experience, that it is possible. It might take some time, but it’s solvable. The only problem that you can have later are those smelly feet, cause they won't be so appealing anymore and the smell will start to bother you. But that's solvable too
In meanwhile you can check if you have a fungal infection (Athlete's foot/tinea pedis) and start with therapy, cause if it spreads, the healing process will take a longer time and it can be expensive. It's also annoying if it spread on toenails.

 

Hey bro, I have had a foot fetish since I was a child. I have always been into normal thing too. Lately ( around 2 weeks ago ) I came across a couple foot slave ( femdom ) stories and decided to try and read em, and started getting hard from reading. After jerking off to the stories ( ik how stupid it sounds ) and then started overthinking bout how I ended up there and that I’m a loser for getting turned on by such things, and for the next couple days I couldn’t get an erection from anything else anymore. After trying to instantly quit porn and failed because of anxiety of being stuck like this forever, I tried another method. I tried to watch vanilla porn for a week or almost two, and now I am kinda better, can get hard from normal things but not strongly like use to ( which I guess is understandable since it will take time to fully recover). After this 2 weeks my connection with femdom started to become weaker but was still there, and I accidentally ended up relapsing 3 days ago. I hope I can overcome this addiction or fetish whatever it is.

 

Yes I know I've read you posts from "How to deal with fantasies?".

You are very young, and from your perspective, it might be a little harder for you to understand what exactly induced your need. It’s important to understand that your fetish is just the tip of the iceberg. Below the surface, there is a whole nother world of your emotional and sexual upbringing and maturation. You can start by analyzing what exactly aroused you and what did you enjoy the most that you saw in the video or read in the story. Be honest to yourself and admit what situation excited you the most - have you imagined yourself in a subordinate role? Or there’s something else?

If that’s the case (you were aroused by submissive role) then start thinking why are dominant women so interesting for you. That can be the start of the healing process. Feet are just collateral in this situation, they are usually attached to a person! They have their symbolism, of course – a long time ago high-ranking persons (kings, queens, priesthood) required from their servants and slaves to bow down and kiss their feet. Kissing, licking, or being under someone’s feet is just one of the forms of the lowest submission. There are worse ways of submission … but let’s not go into that area right now

In this case, pornography is just a type of “medicine” that helps with your primary problem. If there were a no deeper problem, you wouldn’t even be watching this type of porn. There are chances that you will need stronger and higher doses of the “medicine” over time. The only solution is to dig through the psyche and find the source of this need of yours.
I think you already realized that switching your real "medicine" for "vanilla" one doesn't work. It will "help" for some time but not in the longer run.

 

Thanks dude but listen, I been into vanilla before. I’m not the type of foot fetishist that can only be aroused by feet. Now about understanding the fetish, I believe its the humiliation of being degraded and being submissive to a women feet is what caused it because after thinking bout it a lot I have always been low on self esteem, never been confident and never thought of my self good enough. I just want to get rid of this shit cz I just want to live a normal life. I don’t mind my foot fetish, I can live with it, foot worship and fj yea I’m ok with it but being a foot slave!?? I’m not that

 

We’re talking about your fantasies here, not real life and real sex. You do not have to implement any of this in reality ... and if you didn’t try anything (foot fetish or fj) - better keep it that way.
(I mean I can hardly believe that somebody who’s 19yo is getting fj and stuff like that … or am I wrong?
Work on your self-esteem, confidence and with the time you’ll start to think better about yourself and this fantasy about being submissive will disappear. You must understand why do you feel about yourself that way and what can you do about that. If you feel that you can’t handle it on our own maybe you can search for some counseling or something.
You should try to fit as much as possible into the normal role of a man (both emotionally and sexually), especially if you are planning a marriage and family. These kinds of fetishes are cool when you’re e young, but later in life, they can cause big problems (from my experience .

 

Thanks bro really appreciate it. Btw I’m 17* and one other factor I think it’s my stress. For the past 10 months I been going through hell with my stress and anxiety.

 

Thats good to hear bro. Most of us can’t stand out fetishes. I can’t stand my femdom fetish but I’m ok with the foot fetish. Either way good luck bro hope you get over it

 

that's a very good idea!

 

That's what I was talking about. You are still adolescent (your sexual development is not yet finished), you don't have to worry that much about fetishes.
It's good that you've noticed problem and that you are willing to take some actions. Try not to nourish them more.
i know...stress is one of the biggest problems for me, too. Try to find a way to relax and sometime just talking to someone about your problem can help a lot.