I have been thinking of joining this for a while but didn't because it's embarrassing to think I can't control something about myself. But I can't. So whatever. Here goes. I've never done a group thing like this. But I have gone long stretches without on my own before. It usually meant me sort of building up to the break in my mind over the course of a couple weeks and then going cold turkey on the day I planned. And it has worked OK. I mean 4 months or so, maybe half a year once. But the last time I did that, over the past few months, I cheated by looking at images and other sexual content. I just deceived myself a bit into thinking I was being good until some of the old stuff started creeping back in and I had a bad enough day and got into a certain mindset and you know what happened. So at present I am just going to try to avoid all PM and other image-related sex stuff for 90 days. My past experiences suggest this will probably work as long as I find ways to hold myself accountable and I hope this site will help with that. Or maybe it will tell me I'm deluding myself and need to do the full reboot or something. We'll see. I've browsed and will continue to browse and ask questions, etc. Advice is officially solicited. Thanks.