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I had sexual dream tonight.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Dziki007, Nov 15, 2016.

  1. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    Hello, after my dream tonight i thought i could share it.

    I am on my 13 days streak reboot, during whole streak i had not morning woods or sexual dreams till now and i think that dream means something. I dreamed about girl i met some time ago. I was with her in some room, she was sitting on chair only with her panties and soocks and I was completly naked. We were talking about some shiit and suddenly she started pushing my balls with her feet. I was like "wtf girl stop that" my balls after 13 days are enormous and it was pretty painful. She doesnt care and still was pushing with her small feet to make me relapse, and then after when i nearly relapsed i woke up. No single drop of my semen on my pants. I was clear and proud that i hold it. I intepreate that dream as test, as im hard for myself and every wet dream i count as relapse. Everytime i go to bed im talking to my self "I wont have wet dream" seems it working out. What do you think?
     
  2. A wet dream isn't a relapse. It doesn't halt your progress that much.
     
  3. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    I belive it is relapse, wet dreams are only normal in puberty. I dont belive wet dreams as "healing" its still realease semen. I dont want release semen AT ALL as it very beneficial to body. I have huge load and im feeling pretty awesome with that i dont want lose it.
     
  4. @Dziki007 No. Wet dream is not a relapse. A relapse is when you intentionally choose to give up. Sure you can do affirmations and what not, but for the most part you can not control what your body does while you sleep. So why beat up yourself for something you have no control over? Doesn't make any sense. Something that is natural. For all ages. We only get them more at puberty cos our hormones are higher so all the fapping might not help. And we don't get them when we are adults only cos we fap. If nobody would fap then almost every adult would have wet dreams all the time.

    With time your body will adjust and you will have less we dreams. The production of all that stuff is still very high so it need frequent discharge to clean it's pipes so to speak. The less you O the more body will realize that it does not need so much of that stuff and will produce less.
     
  5. Dziki007

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    Actually you can control your dreams, its lucid dreaming, happened to me few times, it requires pratice and its rather mystical unknown method. Maybe wet dream is natural, okey but i count it highly as relapse still even in dream im in fantasy world and loosing my semen. Hard way or nothing. And there is few things that can help avoid wet dreams. I started 13 days ago and i promise you i wont have any wet dream for more than 90 days because i belive in some techniques and in power of mind and subconcious. I read somewhere that whole cycle of producing semen is 90 days, after it old semen is re-absorbed in the body. I belive in ancient wisdom where they worship semen as lifeforce giving strenght and energy, why lose it?
     
  6. I do agree that wet dream while being lucid is a relapse. Because you have control. But you can't be always lucid when you sleep. I've even had some wet dreams in a state where I did not dream at all, just discharge that's all.

    You could probably stop wet dreams with those techniques. And it's not important do discharge semen cos it can be re-absorbed, you're right. But prostate fluid can't. And forcefully retaining it can put a lot of unhealthy stress on prostate. So if you care about health the best thing you could do is to wait a few months until your body is used to less frequent ejaculations and slows down prostate fluid production. Once it's low, cos you don't ejaculate often, then the excess could probably be flushed out through urination. But at early stages it's too much for that to be sufficient.
     
  7. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    I never heard about prostate fluid i need to check on that ;) But i think ill take the risk and make the that challenge with semen rentention. Last time i had wet dream was 10 years ago during puberty and I will keep it that way becasue my mind is stronger then my fantazies and urges. Thanks for advices i am grateful to hear others opinions, specially on that controversial and unknown subject.
     
  8. IggyIshness

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    It will make no difference to make yourself relapse when you have a wt dream or not. It will only make it harder and more stressful
     
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  9. Okay man, good luck to you. Do check on that, do your research man, be safe.
     
  10. Dziki007

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    After 14 days i started feeling rising energy to my head as i havnt started techniques draning energy from balls through spine. This is why headaches some users claim to have because energy is acumulated and not used. I think i need more exercises.
     
  11. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    I see two issues here that can work together, but each has its own goal.
    1) Heal from addiction to pornography, and
    2) Retain sperm.
    You can certainly do both, and, if you want to do both, it would make good sense to do them at the same time.
    Some people have not looked into the benifits of sperm retention, so to them only healing the P-addiction is an issue, and a nocturnal emission is seen as a pressure release that does not need to get in the way of the healing, and can be seen as beneficial.
     
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  12. Dziki007

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    Yes exactly other people have diffrent view on it, for me semen retention is important because im ashamed that during this years of masturbation i lost so much of my lifeforce that i feel obligated to regain, repair it. So i will try hold long as I can and avoid wet dreams ;)
     
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