I have a doubt

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by carl nielsen, Sep 3, 2019.

  1. carl nielsen

    carl nielsen New Fapstronaut

    I've been in hard mode for 20 days now.
    My girlfriend is living now in another country and she wants to do telephonic sex, with a videocall, masturbating both at the same time.
    We did it yesterday, but i did not eyaculate, just touching.
    Is that allowed? If i touch my self seeing my girlfriend, without cuming, is that a reboot?
  2. Despicable me

    Despicable me Fapstronaut

    You are basically doing the same thing when watching porn. Only difference is, that behind the screen is your girlfriend. Your brain cant make the difference.
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  3. What you think is allowed is what you feel is allowed. I don't agree with the guy above me. If your girlfriend wants to engage in these kinds of things with you, you are going to have to explain to her why you can't do them. Or you are going to do them.

    If you are having doubts I would probably not do it then. Though you're going to need to say why to your girlfriend. If you think it might give you a harder time in meeting your goals, it's probably a good idea to not do it.
  4. carl nielsen

    carl nielsen New Fapstronaut

    Yeah, she knows about all this thing. In fact was she who told me that maybe that thing it was not allowed.
    I am doing it because of the energy and focus.
    Anyway, i already cum, so that's it.
    I will continue not seeing porn during the rest of the 3 months, but i will have telephonic sex as i have to take advantage of having a girlfriend hehehe.
    Thank you all for the time and answers!
  5. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

    My friend you are defeating yourself.
    You have relapsed.
    Use this time to know her better. Sex can wait.
    I am not preaching but u need to be clear on what you want.
    Don't change your strategy for anyone or anything.
  6. prenupeverytime

    prenupeverytime New Fapstronaut


    Yes, you are preaching.

    If OP wants to have phone sex with his girlfriend, that is totally okay, and totally his decision. It is not nearly as bad as viewing the hundreds of different girls in porn.

    If he shouldn't change his strategy for anyone or anything, that includes you. Keep doing you, carl.

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