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I have a prone masturbation addiction.. NEED HELP!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by pumpum_man, Jul 29, 2019.

  1. pumpum_man

    pumpum_man Fapstronaut

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    I am afraid I can't cum during real sex. I have been doing it since 14. I hump my pillows and bed, I can't seem to masturbat the normal way. I have stopped, it's been a week now, and it's not easy.

    Anyone here had this problem? How did they overcome it?

    Would love to hear from you....!!
     
  2. Jamesfrank

    Jamesfrank New Fapstronaut

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  3. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Fapstronaut

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    How much pressure on the penis do you have to cause a venous leak or something that you can't fix via prone masturbation? I have the same problem too, and am worried.
     
  4. pumpum_man

    pumpum_man Fapstronaut

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    I get erections and all and I can maintain them, just afriad of not cuming druing sex due to pressure.
     
  5. Yeah mate I couldn’t cum during sex I would last about an hour or longer. The best thing what worked for me was just stopping all together, I think I stopped for roughly 1 month then ended up relapsing but yeah I got with a chick after that and lasted 10 minutes which was a record for me. When I relapsed I told myself to go slow and yeah ever since that now when I have sex i last roughly 10 mins to 20 mins
     
  6. pumpum_man

    pumpum_man Fapstronaut

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    So stopping all together and not trying to fap normally helped? You didn't need to retrain your brain?
     
  7. Yeah for me just stopping all together helped. I didn’t really need to retrain my brain but everyone’s different. I could never cum when I masturbated and I think because I was masturbating too fast when I was a kid so when I had sex it wasn’t the same and I would never cum either. It caused me to have anxiety during sex too. But yeah I can’t remember if I did retrain my brain but I remember I stopped masturbating all together and this was before I even knew about nofap because I was with a ex then and she would hate me lasting so long, she felt like it was her. I stopped masturbating for a month and then I started again without porn and took it really slow .
     
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  8. pumpum_man

    pumpum_man Fapstronaut

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    you where doing prone?
     
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