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I have ED I assume from overmasturbation

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by James24, May 2, 2015.

  1. James24

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    im having doubts. i woke up with a strong boner but it went away after maybe 2 minutes and never came back or anything. i think its becuse i had to pee. what if im broken. :( it only been one day. but what if im doing this for nothing. :(
     
  2. tomtom

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    If it has been only one day then don't worry. The odds are very much in your favour, like 100 000:1.

    Just hang on there.
     
  3. James24

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    thank you
     
  4. James24

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    3rd day and idk im not really attracted to anything, woke up with a boner but it was of course not fully hard, went away after i peed, idk i think if i touched my penis right now it would just hurt! i am now on day 3 and i hope that this is why i have ED!
     
  5. Buzzltyr

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    At the same time, having Os with your partner is probably helping you to bond with your partner and creating real relationships that will hopefully pull you away from P.

    But I'm not the expert here. Hard mode is probably the more effective route to begin with.
     
  6. James24

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    my penis actually sort of physically feels hurt, but i think my erection this morning was better than yesterday? still went away as soon as i got out of bed though.. im on day 4 now
     
  7. James24

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    day 5 woke up with no morning wood i hope thats normal :(
     
  8. Happiness

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    Yes they do 100%. I've been facing the same issue.
     
  9. James24

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    i dont get turned on by anything .... like images or people irl or anything, really nothing turns me on when it USED to. is this normal?
     
  10. Limeaid

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    You are flatlining which is part of the process when your brain is deprived of dopamine. It is very much like a drug addicts crash when he gives up drugs. This is your brain coming down off the high of porn. It is completely normal and will eventually go away as your dopamine levels go back to normal. Your sexuality has been hijacked by porn so being "turned on by everything" is actually not a normal sexuality, it is your addiction manufacturing desire for dopamine. What you have to look forward to when you are balanced is increased happiness in every day life, being sexually turned on by real live girls, not feeling out of control horniness and erections coming back.

    Hang in there, you are NOT broken!! You are truing to fix this problem and it's not going to be unicorns and sunshine because you have some damage that needs to be reversed. Maybe stop thinking about your penis and sex so much. Go out and enjoy life as much as you can to get your mind off this whole process. You will eventually heal so what's the point in worrying 24/7? :)
     
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  11. James24

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    thanks. I just am stressing over what if theres something else thats wrong with me, and not this? but this has to be it! im an otherwise healthy young man. blegh! well im still going strong. its only been 5 days but im hanging in there.
     
  12. arturo111

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    i have ED bro, that is the live demon inside of us =(( it's very importan, never, never M and never, never P! O just with your girlfriend and i give you advice, take cialis =(( With luck and be strong!
     
  13. James24

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    just got a BJ.. but still no P or M. so im not counting it as a relapse. but my penis wasnt really into it.... now day 6 and i feel dirty now sort of
     
  14. diamondboi

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    Yee it feels like a limp noodle getting sucked. Itll eventually get better. took me 42 days before I could o from a bj
    In the begging I could get semi hard but would go limp whike getting blowed

    From my experience desensitization will take the longest to recover.

    FYI cialis helps if u can get a decent erection with ur partner and r looking for a 10-15% boost in stronger and maitenance of erection
     
  15. James24

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    wow thanks for the response. it is encouraging to hear positive success stories. so i didnt mess up by getting a BJ? and I O'd from BJ but i was pretty limp the whole time, just got hard here and there. i will definitely not PMO while i'm gauging my recovery. and i could try cialis but i would like to be able to do it without cialis. i hope one day i will not have to use cialis! are you saying just use cialis if i want to have intercourse in the meantime?
     
  16. Never heard about cialis.:confused:
     
  17. diamondboi

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    Cialis is a nitric oxide booster.. all it does is increase blood and oxygen to he area targeted. Good for working out the muscles... the best pw imp.


    Ye it'll get better. Pussy feels amazing though. ..
    This nofap rele does work. just remain active and supportive of others on this site, talk and meet other women and I assure u... u wont relapse. once u start noticing the progression u wI'll laugh at pmo and finally understand how pathetic it is.
     
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  18. arturo111

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    Bro i'm clean 210 days from my last relapse... If you are on 6 day, don't panic evrythink will be ok, just no pmo
     
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  19. James24

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    thanks, i sure hope so! ive always done M a lot, didnt realize how much until these days

    are things better????
     
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  20. arturo111

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    Hmmm... Not so. Few days before, i have an angel of a girl, but just 14 days :(( i'm not heаlthy, deep in me i'm not happy. I'm on cialis for erection :(( i remeber when i was a kid (now i have 27) but on my 16 i was a boy full with erection, but that ficking PMO chainged my life!:(( Be strong bro James24 and stay clean. With love Arturo111
     
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