I have never had a wet dream in 42 years

I'm 41 and I had only one wet dream in my life when I was 16 or 17 years old. I'd also like to know if wet dreams are still possible when you are 40+ age.

 

To be frank, you both are rather lucky. It may sound very damn exciting to orgasm in your sleep, but let me assure you it is nothing like that...at least not for long.
Spoiler
You feel really damn good when it happens (for literally a fraction of a second) only to wake up and find your guy juice ruining your clothing and dripping everywhere and leaving a sticky mess. Even if you don't sleep naked, it still leaks out, just so u know.

The science behind wet dreams is still unclear, but if you want to induce them really badly, try a combination of the tips below: (i really don't recommend it though)
1. Drink warm milk before bed
2. Drink 3/4 of a glass of water a bit afterwards
3. Try to sleep on a slightly full bladder. Just don't pee before bed.
4. Eat junk food rich in spices.
5. If u get ugres before bed, just sleep them off. Don't tackle them before sleeping.

I honestly never thought i'd give advice like this on nofap, but i suppose every guy deserves an experience like this at least once. It's fascinating to observe your body's secrets. All the same, just don't try it! Let it happen naturally- think about it: if your body really needs a wet dream, it'll happen by itself
Anyways, please be careful if you do decide to experiment. This is really just like toying around with masturbation after all!

On another note, about 80% of men report at least one wet dream in their lives. You guys will most likely get one anyway! The only factor which may influence the absense of wet dreams so far is your age. Sexual drive and capacity declines after 40.

Here is a safe, medical test:
Take zinc supplements. They boost testosterone and hence promote wet dreams naturally. I'd recommend this actually. After all, you aren't inducing one artificially!

Feel free to pose questions if you like. There's a lot more about wet dreams i can tell you if u like!
Best of luck on your streaks!

 

Yes. Had one in my life back when I was a teenager. Had my second, at age 49, about a month ago.

I sleep naked and my wife purchased a better-quality set of sheets a short while back. They have a somewhat silky feel to them and I'm pretty sure I had them bunched up between my legs during my wet dream. So if there was some rubbing that was induced by my dream, that would make sense.

And yeah. Nothing great as far as a sensation. For me, it was like a realization that "Hey, I'm gonna cum!" while at the exact same time waking up and realizing that "Shit, I'm gonna cum!"

 

Yeah, it's not pleasant and you still get some of the same physical effects of a relapse (though to a much lesser and more temporary degree).

 

My limited experience of the one recent time is that I had an image of an attractive woman in my dream, but it wasn't in an erotic pose. There was no nudity or sexual activity of any type. It felt like the dream lasted about 5 seconds. That was it. In analyzing it, it felt like I must have been aroused first, then this image came into my head just before I came.

So there was nothing 'fun' about it. But I do remember waking up and almost laughing at what I considered the absurdity of it. Then carefully hiding it from my wife. I told her about it that evening and all was cool.

 

An erection is not necessary in a wet dream. Some get one. Some don't. A wet dream is the only way one can ejac without being erect!
Wierd huh?