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i have some questions.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by CrayolaCat, Nov 30, 2014.

  1. Nov 30, 2014 #1
    CrayolaCat

    CrayolaCat Fapstronaut

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    Okay so after a month or so on nofap (my goal) i enjoyed it... but shit happens XD. this isnt really an excuse ( even though thats exactly what it is) but i got a cold and whenever that happens i normally get SUPER... well you know and i ended up relapsing :(. But now im here to retry NoFap again after some decent success. But before i do so i need to ask some things.
    first thing being has anyone felt somewhat fatigued? while i was on NoFap i dont know why but i managed to wake up and go to school much more easily (very noticeable). But i also found myself much more tired after school, so because of this i didnt go to the gym for like 2 months straight and loss some GAINZ. And i honestly feel like they have a connection or it could also be because i had just started the school year and blah blah blah idk i really dont ;).

    ALSO this is a big one, the wetdreams *Shivers* Okay dont get me wrong the dreams ARE FUCKING AMAZING! But afterwards is terrible, i feel terrible physically and mentally (my lets say banana hurts afterwards, also i had to sing the song to spell banana), i feel like ive relapsed and its just terrible. Some people argue that "YOUR A SATAN CHILD BWAHH CONTROL YOURSELF, IT DOES COUNT" while other say otherwise. And to my 15 year old knowledge it is something completely natural that cant be prevented. But if im basically going to O every couple of days (literally happened twice in a week) doesnt that defeat the purpose?

    And one final thing, i looked to NoFap for one main reason(might just be Puberty FML)and that was to help me be more consistent in my daily life. Sadly it didnt really help, and by consistent i mean one day ill be on top of the world, its like Zeus zapped my Ankles with Lightning ( i dont know why i said ankles it sounded funny at the time). And the very next day i just feel like absolute crap. And i hate it so much, its like being able to taste the worlds best chocolate cake and then the stool your standing on breaks so you have to go back to eating the pop tarts on the floor. So my question is has NoFap fixed this for anyone? because while i did have more confidence and etc it was very on and off.Or is that just a part of "growing up"? And im starting to realize you cant just start doing one thing and hope it fixes all your problems.
    but thanks for reading and i look forward to your responses.

    ALSO i found this HILARIOUS video from southpark that explains addiction perfectly ,i love the satire in this show so much. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ML2aQTn_1Ao&list=FL4KbET1KzsOCyuxKVyZ9Nyg&index=1
     
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  2. Dec 1, 2014 #2
    Sven311

    Sven311 Fapstronaut

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    This is a crucial time for you.. you are going through changes.. let it pass naturally.. and don't feel inferior or too negative about it.

    I do not think you have any addiction.. if you start studying about it it will cause problem.. Get the basic ideas of addiction and be as far away from the word "addiction" as you can.. over curiosity has been the root of evil for many.. always hangout with decent people..

    wet dreams are natural for your age...try not to fantasize about it too much especially when you are alone.. have fun talking to the friends about it..

    and when you are sick you are weak. don't get into the habit of giving yourself pleasure (food, drugs or M) when you feel sick.. it leads to bad habits and bad habits lead to addiction.. it is just like a wound that passes..

    when I was 15 I did not have much friends.. I did not talk much with my parents.. so when I was passing the stage you are passing I used to fantasize and imagine sexual intimacy, love stories etc.. and when I found porn, I got hooked.. Now i know that it is a stage that arrives and passes (your body reminds you that it is ready for sex)... and if you do not become addicted by the time it passes then you become sexually matured ( meaning you will not be overwhelmed by your sexual desires).. but I got hooked before maturity and that in term led me to all kinds of addiction.


    I guess its hard for a young man like you to not watch porn.. but try not to.. develop the idea that porn is something disgusting, pathetic, sad and evil(video, text and audio).. just like drugs.. As far as I know your generation (like you) is slowly but surely getting out of this curse.. society started to see porn just as harmful as cocaine and heroin (And trust me it is).. Unfortunately me and my generation is the biggest victim of this curse..
     
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  3. Dec 1, 2014 #3
    CrayolaCat

    CrayolaCat Fapstronaut

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    thanks very much i appreciate it.
     
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