I just can't take it anymore...

For Fapstronauts who are disciples of Christ

  1. JesusDied4me

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    Over the past 6 months I've tried and fought as hard as I could. But nothing is ever good enough, I'm crushed in this course of life, I just want your prayers because I'm lost and alone. I deserve whatever the punishment is for my sins, God have mercy on my tortured soul....
     
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  2. Be kind to yourself brother. Best wishes.
     
  3. cr7da8055

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    Hey! Don’t take it so hard on yourself. You tried your best. I’m sure of that. Trying and failing is much better than not trying at all. You had the mindset to improve, that by itself requires courage. Come on,there are people wasting time not knowing that they’re destroying themselves. At least you acknowledged that pmo was destroying you. So my advice to you would be to keep going,no matter how many setbacks you have. That mindset of yours to change,is the important factor here. Keep going friend, I’m always here to help you out. I’m confident you’ll become better soon.
    Peace!
     
  4. Warrior254

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    Hold on brother, Hope on hope ever, Christ died that we maybe free from sin, rely on him every time temptation comes...He can calm the storm in your life.
     
  5. Deysonn

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    No one is perfect, so to expect perfection of yourself is not realistic. What is important is striving for improvement, because this is how we get better. So realize feeling sorry for yourself does not help. Take some time, settle your thoughts and reflect on what is going right and then make a plan to fix the bad stuff. Life in general is a constant struggle, never give up. I have failed plenty times but I am still in the game.

    Hang in there bro!
     
  6. Deserves got nothing to do with it. If you resonate with the idea of god, consider his mercy. All of us get the results of our actions, all of us are free to chose. In general, the people here want for your happiness. You might want to find a men's group of some kind, or seek out a counselor. You also might want to turn your thoughts around. How we talk to ourselves is a big part of our happiness. Instead of "I'm a worthless sack of shit" its "I am unhappy right now but I am going to learn form my mistakes and make my life better". Exercise. Go for walks outside. Tell the truth no matter what. Make new friends. You are not a bad person, you just haven't stumbled on happiness yet.
     
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  7. Awedouble

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    I read your post in another thread that you had a month, that's significant. Aside from the people who are willing to support you emotionally there's plenty of details we can talk about too, when you're ready.
     
  8. ZiguShar

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    and once more, the judeo christian bollocks hammered into the poor innocent minds of unsuspecting young men , create another poor victim, tortured by the conflict caused by his natural sexual desires and curiosities, and the castrating and tyrannical doctrines of sin and divine punishment... sigh , almost 2000 years of messing with peoples minds and bodies, leading them to unnecessary pains, stresses and worries.

    maybe you should ask yourself how would a roman circa 20 BC or 70 AD or 200 BC , how would he react if he saw you talking about sins and punishment .... how would Caesar react? Mark Antony? Seneca?

    clear your mind of such nonsense and free your body from the these tyrannical and evil prisons you are surrounded with which will cause you nothing but suffering for as long as you live mate... Then you will begin to make progress towards becoming a real man , free and independent from superstition . Then focus on being with real women, girls, or boys if thats your preference, real people, even if its sex workers , they can greatly help you to become more self aware of your sexuality and self , get past trauma, improve sexual performance, etc if you chose them well.

    Take care.
     
  9. JesusDied4me

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    I understand the concern of bad doctrin, but the thing is about me is that no one ever told me what I'm doing is wrong. It's somthing I've felt by myself.
     
  10. JesusDied4me

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    You're 100% right.
     
  11. Hey, I just wanted to let you know that you're awesome for all the progress you've made and the effort you've put in. I'm a firm believer that God cares just as much about effort as He cares about results. Keep up the good work.

    And if it makes you feel any better, I've been trying to quit porn for like 5 years..
     
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  12. Ben teks

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    Bro don't give. Engage yourself forcefully in the activities you like and be more social. We know you can beat stress and sadness and remember God gives one chance to his children to put life on track. This is your opportunity. Do what you like. Never let any negative thoughts win over you.
     
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  13. JesusDied4me

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    And one other thing, the reason this matter is so serious, is because it's not just curiosity it's not just sexual desires. That's just an excuse to stay where you're at. Because well.. people like doing this act obviously, but I tell you what honest to God 100%, I've felt better not doing masturbation. Though it's hard to stay on track with it. The results are totally worth it, knowing that I'm that much of a man, that I can shove all my desires in one place and control them. Because gluttony is not only in the forum of food. Its consuming in general.
     
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  14. JesusDied4me

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    We're all in this together definitely one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. But we all know it's the right thing to do. God bless you and I pray you do well!
     
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  15. JesusDied4me

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    Absolutely! God bless.
     
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  16. Learn! Identify your triggers from your relapses. You shall fall as many times as you need to learn. Relapses are only stumbles from which you can learn! Get up and don't give up!
     
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  17. JesusDied4me

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    And learn I shall.
     
  18. We all have self defeating thoughts and tendencies. They cycle round with our motivation to make ourselves into better men. If there is anything I can do to help you level out don't hesitate to ask.
     
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  19. JesusDied4me

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    Thanks brother really appreciate it!
     
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  20. G0ReadAB00k

    G0ReadAB00k Fapstronaut

    My brother!

    The Apostle Paul's letter to the Philippian church, in Philippians 1:6 (NLT) says, "And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns."

    That means that God won't leave you halfway through your fight! He WILL complete the good work He started in you!

    I myself am 10 months into my fight against PMO, and I just recently stumbled. It sucks, and I hate it, but every time I stumble, I start to hate my sin more and more. Like many of your brothers have already reminded you here, the fact that you have even begun your fight is a huge accomplishment. You are setting yourself up for a bright future in Christ, and your future wife and family will benefit from the fruit of this battle.

    Like it says in Hebrews 12:1, all of Heaven cheers for us as we fight, and all of Heaven's armies fight with us!

    YOU CAN DO IT!!
     

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