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I just lost my virginity with my girlfriend, but I can't orgasm without imagining things

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by StepUp28, May 17, 2022.

  1. StepUp28

    StepUp28 Fapstronaut

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    I have just reached my 10 week Nofap streak of no porn and no masturbation and was expecting things to go well, but it seems that I cannot get off with my girlfriend. I am on antidepressants which probably play a role but I am able to orgasm while picturing things, and while sex feels good, it doesn't feel as good as when I masturbate and I think I have some what of a death grip.

    I am now worried that I will never be able to enjoy sex. I am 10 weeks porn and masturbation free but my brain is still used to the porn experience instead of actual sex. It's like I can't just be in the moment and I have to picture something to get off. I even pictured having sex with my girlfriend... while having sex with my girlfriend.

    I mean apart from the fact that I can pretty much last forever in bed which can be a good thing I guess, this is making me very frustrated because I'm worried I've permanently damaged my brain and my penis and that I'll never enjoy sex.
     
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  2. Abel100%

    Abel100% Fapstronaut

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    10 semanas es un gran logro, que bueno que tienes una novia que te apoya. ..
     
  3. MarioCorrelos

    MarioCorrelos Fapstronaut

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    10 weeks is 70 days. Give it time. I don't know your case, but years of addiction do not reverse in 70 days. You have to let your body (and brain) get used to the new kind of stimulation that sex with your girlfriend provides.
     

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