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Freddy 55

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Hello everyone

So I started my semen retention journey 24 days ago.

And I must say I feel a thousand time better. More confident and I'm constantly horny! But I love the feeling of being horny. I prefer it to even pmo. I find I am more engaging with woman, I have lots more energy. I know if I nasturbate it will go away. I used to mastrubate every day but then I wasn't horny I was just drained. I feel like Im about to explode all the time and I am using that energy to do more work and get this done. I don't see it as a urge to mastrubate because then I know this feeling will disappear.

I am really enjoying this so far!

I want to go minimum 100 days if not forever. I just love the way I'm feeling.

Cheers!
 
Freddy 55 said:
Hello everyone

So I started my semen retention journey 24 days ago.

And I must say I feel a thousand time better. More confident and I'm constantly horny! But I love the feeling of being horny. I prefer it to even pmo. I find I am more engaging with woman, I have lots more energy. I know if I nasturbate it will go away. I used to mastrubate every day but then I wasn't horny I was just drained. I feel like Im about to explode all the time and I am using that energy to do more work and get this done. I don't see it as a urge to mastrubate because then I know this feeling will disappear.

I am really enjoying this so far!

I want to go minimum 100 days if not forever. I just love the way I'm feeling.

Cheers!
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I just started semen retention 10 days ago. I know that’s not very long, but getting past 7 days is a miracle for me. I stopped all sexual fantasies, porn and masturbating. Life is so much more interesting now, and you have all this sexual energy to give you motivation. I wouldn’t want to go back to that miserable life before. Wish I tried this in my teens.
 
Freddy 55 said:
I know if I nasturbate it will go away.
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That's the key right there!
I love being horny, too. If I try to stay horny, I get in trouble. That's part of the addiction - constantly seeking arousal.
Arousal is normal, God-given and totally healthy. Enjoy the ride when it hits. Resist the urge to get off in unhealthy ways. And then, let it go.
 
Although today my balls are literally sore. It feels like I have blue balls. It's a nice feeling but a little bit painful.
 
The key is having clear that PMO gives you pleasure for a small amount of time, without PMO you feel good every moment.

Anyway, ejaculation through sex can weaken the arousal induced by semen retention, and usually after a long streak of no O I personally tend to experience PE.

In this community we should discuss more about the different effects on sex drive/erection quality of:
  • Abstaining from O (semen retention)
  • Abstaining from M
  • Abstaining from other types of physical stimulation (e.g. sex and foreplay)
  • Abstaining from P/soft P
  • Abstaining from other types of psychogenic stimulation (e.g. kissing, cuddling, sexual fantasies...)
 
I love this thread!

I am focusing more on semen retention nowadays than nofap, I just think that porn isn't any of use to me anymore and it isn't even a 'use', more of a coping mechanism. I am on day 4 but without the last two wet dreams, it will be 14 days! but amazing how one could reach days without busting, my problem now is just wet dreams, I haven't experienced busting in my sleep without a dream but always with an arousing dream (either me watching porn in the dream or busting in the dream with someone or just pure stimulation, the feeling is more intense in the dream than awake and relapsing to porn).
 
jradlr said:
I love this thread!

I am focusing more on semen retention nowadays than nofap, I just think that porn isn't any of use to me anymore and it isn't even a 'use', more of a coping mechanism. I am on day 4 but without the last two wet dreams, it will be 14 days! but amazing how one could reach days without busting, my problem now is just wet dreams, I haven't experienced busting in my sleep without a dream but always with an arousing dream (either me watching porn in the dream or busting in the dream with someone or just pure stimulation, the feeling is more intense in the dream than awake and relapsing to porn).
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so do you lose any benefits in a wet dream? theres probably no real way of preventing them. because your balls can only get so full.
 
Day 89 today!!
Pretty much day 90!

I can't believe I made it 3 months! Wow.

I definitely feel a lot better. I have so much confidence. I'm so clear headed. Have lost a fortune of weight since I started (started at 105kgs now I'm 88kgs and I'll go down to 82kgs).

Then I plan to do a further 90 days /so a total of 180 days). People are saying 90 days is when things get really good. So far all this time I have been working upto the 90 day mark. The next 90 days will be ontop of the current 90 days so it should be even better!!

Wish me luck!
 
Freddy 55 said:
Day 89 today!!
Pretty much day 90!

I can't believe I made it 3 months! Wow.

I definitely feel a lot better. I have so much confidence. I'm so clear headed. Have lost a fortune of weight since I started (started at 105kgs now I'm 88kgs and I'll go down to 82kgs).

Then I plan to do a further 90 days /so a total of 180 days). People are saying 90 days is when things get really good. So far all this time I have been working upto the 90 day mark. The next 90 days will be ontop of the current 90 days so it should be even better!!

Wish me luck!
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im at 46 days now and it seems like my brain just wants me to fap, im on edge 24/7 of the time more socially awkward and being nervous for no reason. also getting headaches that last for hours from time to time. will my 90 days get better? i made it 90 days before but saw improvement.

at first it seemed i was getting some benefits like my skin being better and having less acne, but my acne came back so im guessing it didn’t help.
 
Now I'm day 92.

I do feel different between day 89 VS once I crossed the 90th day. I don't understand why there would be a difference atall but since I hit 90 days I'm really horny now much more than earlier and I'm as charged as I was in the first couple of weeks. My thinking now is I have worked myself upto 90 days, but that was just reaching 90 days - the next 90 days will be abstaining with 90 days already done - so I see the next 90 days as a real indicator of any benefits I'll get from not fapping. As I say I am super horny and my penis is super sensitive I don't really touch it except to make a pee. So it feels like I have this thing attached to me that just wants to explode all the time. But I am committed I won't touch is for the next three months. So far I feel way more confident. I'm better in every way compared to three months ago - so I see no reason to stop this current behavior of mine.
 
It could also be a "placebo" effect or a "wave" period... just check if this continues over time. I don't think there's an internal "clock" inside our body that changes on the 90 days hit like a switch.
 
kenshin81 said:
It could also be a "placebo" effect or a "wave" period... just check if this continues over time. I don't think there's an internal "clock" inside our body that changes on the 90 days hit like a switch.
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Agreed. Definitely placebo. But the placebo effect is working wonders for me none the less. I feel so proud of myself and my streak is just going to get bigger and bigger! It's really important to have done things that make you feel proud!
 
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