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I met a girl and I have feelings for her

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Jonny1992, Apr 28, 2021.

  1. Apr 28, 2021 #1
    Jonny1992

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    Well, she is the one that knows everything about me. And we know for more than 3 years, no even 4 years. And I noticed I developed feelings for her. We can talk about everything, which I did not have with my exgf and we are respecting each other.

    The thing is, she always felt ugly for my rational self, also due to the porn addiction that afflicted me. And she really is not beautiful but my emotional self finds her beautiful. we talk, we hug we chill, we help each other out we make food each other. We are best friends, and I am even not in a friend zone. But thanks to porn I have a fetish. I love big boobs. I love squishy hugs and so on. But she got nothing.

    I really don't know how to cope with that. I really don't know. I see her and I feel warmth in my heart. And then I remember I dislike small/nonexistend boobs.

    Does someone have a similar problem?
     
    Jonny1992, Apr 28, 2021
    Jonny1992, Apr 28, 2021
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  2. Apr 29, 2021 #2
    p1n1983

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    You are descriving a really good realtionshiop with a female friend. There's no reason to change that, enjoy speanding time with her as friends, theres no need to complicate things with sex if you are not attracted to her.

    When it comes to having a relationship wait for a woman that you really like her as a person but also that you are really attracted to her pysically.
     
    p1n1983, Apr 29, 2021
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  3. Apr 29, 2021 #3
    brassknucks

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    Don’t get in a serious relationship with someone you’re not thoroughly attracted to, but neither get serious with someone primarily for their high level of beauty. That physical beauty will fade over time, and what will count more is their personality and character.
     
    brassknucks, Apr 29, 2021
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