I miss porn

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Riot02, Jun 20, 2018.

  1. Riot02

    Riot02 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone.

    Even though I don't want to watch porn anymore but I miss it and since I miss it I relapsed. This keeps happening to me every three days.

    How can I make sure that I won't miss porn anymore.

    Thank you
     
  2. tIoD

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    You will miss porn every F day, that's what we call urges. Your brain will seek for that dopamine high it used to take from porn. You miss it, I miss it too, if there were any way to forget it, then Nofap would have been quite easy place to be.
    Set day counter, read many posts here and deny that Porn.
     
  3. hollyman

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    Well same here, i miss porn too, miss the pixelated idol,mix the scene

    but you know there are too many benefit of NoFap that i feelin it or discovered it... i dont wana lose that

    And whenever i want to relapse,,, i just have to rememmber the feelin after relapse...like brain fog,, Numb, sleepy feelin, angry, unconfident,, just wana lay at bed and do nothin...even the S thinking
     
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  4. Hitto

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    You have to keep fighting and find a deeper reason to not use it anymore for me I know that it brings me shame and torments my soul and fills me with nothing but lust and I since I quit I have a better connection with God and have been working on myself and that brings more value to me than a few minutes of staged fornication porn has taken so much and hasn’t given anything valuable in return so I don’t really miss it and I keep praying to stay away from it for some it varies as to how long to find this realization but after 16 months I really don’t miss porn and I like focusing on things that are more important and the things I have been avoiding for the past couple of years keep searching for a purpose and goals that help you realize porn is a huge waste of time
     
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  5. Roady

    Roady Fapstronaut

    Leaving an addiction is like saying goodbye to a very intimate friend.
    We have to mourn about this loss.
    I tried to describe it in my journal.
     
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  6. Sima Guang

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    I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels like this after PMO. I find that feeling starts to get better around 3 days later and is usually fully gone 5-7 days later. But damn is it a horrible feeling. I'm feeling it right now too. Headache, laziness, tired...just horrible.

    @OP
    I deleted a small collection of porn I had saved a few years back on a different nofap attempt, and I still recall some of those images that I've been unable to find again. I miss them a lot. It makes me sad to think that I can't see those beautiful pictures again, but I hope I can one day actually experience that beautiful feeling with an actual person.
     
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  7. ANewLeaf

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    You need to stop missing it. You just need to try. Remember to fight each urges one at a time. I feel like those urges come in levels, i try to imagine it as a game(maybe because i'm a gamer) and try to beat it to the toughest level. Keep trying.

    If you really know why you want to stop, you'll find more excuses not to PMO.
     
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  8. Well even though they may look hot I am sure the women that work in porn are a mess emotionaly , not to mention the sexualy transmited disease they must be caring after all that unprotected sex . For me porn is just a waste of time and a fantsy world I just don't want to get into I have better things to do in my life after I quit porn I have noticted my self esteem is a lot better. I am more focused and get stuff done not to mention I take a lot better care of my self physically and emotionaly threw working out and meditation.
     
  9. LetsdothisK

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    I shit you not. Same thing here. 2 times today ive gone towards it but got a hold of myself before MO.
    Its so fucking annoying. It legitimately feels like when I felt for my ex when we broke up and that throws so many red flags in my face about how bad my addiction is.

    Im on day 3 or 4 and Im hating this shit but that further more cements EXACTLY why I need a reboot.

    And for some reason Ive been getting not so strong boners all freaking day.. soooo fucking annoying having to hide it all day
     
  10. Immature

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    Yes - that emotional component is so bizarre, but strong.
     
  11. Dragon Silver

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    Listen, perhaps to you it may seem as if it is impossible to quit. Yet this is all in your head. You have that choice to quit, to finish with this and take yourself in your desired path. In the end, you control your activities and only you can cast this misery aside. Because believe me, if you truly wish to quit, you must have a purpose. Lastly, I know we as humans make mistakes, so, if it may seem as if life is low, motivate yourself, you are still breathing and have much to explore, do not lunge back in to the past, look forward!
     
  12. Bijuu107

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    You could write here for example what you did on your journey of nofap.
    You don't dont want miss it? Than you have to do something: go to some activieties, talk with people, get some hobbys and so on. You will miss it less with ever day you did something useful or youself.
    I know many try it with will power but i have a method that works better as this, for me. Accept it, talk with yourself, chill yourself out and say yeah I have sometimes this voice in my head but hey that's not how I want to be . I have the urges but it will go away. They are neither bad nor good. It,s a part of your devolopment.Just let it flow away...
    It could be like this...

    Good luck!
     

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