I need an Accountability Partner... Please Help.

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by K10, Mar 31, 2018.

  1. K10

    K10 Fapstronaut

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    I'm 22 years old and I want to change my habits. I want to stop everything from masturbating, looking at porn, objectifying women in public, fixing my libido, and killing my urges to masturbate after getting home or seeing a hot chick.

    I used to spend hours just looking at porn and not 'finishing'. I would look at 30 tabs of porn at once and over stimulate my brain... I know i'm addicted to it and I started at least 8 or 10 years ago...

    Some of the reasons I went to porn included:
    1. It made me feel better when I was depressed.
    2. I was curious and really liked it.
    3. It helped me go to sleep at night because I have a lot of energy (even after doing intensive cardio).
    4. I was lonely and used porn to fix my self esteem or something lol.

    I have been in several relationships where the sex was good but after a while I started realizing I was putting my fantasizes onto them rather than being truly in love with them.

    I'm having urges as I write this and would like someone to talk to when shit hits the fan. Please.
     
  2. Just me

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    Hey there. I appreciate you wanting to get the help you deserve, but I'd recommend trying on a different part of the site. In case you were not aware, this part of the site is for the significant others of those who are addicted to porn. As the partner of a porn addict, this would be too much for me to handle. I am already the one who receives reports on my husband's internet use. I'm sure another PA would be willing to help you out. There are a few accountability softwares out there. We use accountable2you. They have a free trial period if you are interested.
     
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  3. K10

    K10 Fapstronaut

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    I appreciate the assistance. I just accidentally posted on the wrong thread as I was in a rush and was looking for someone to reach out to quickly hahaha I have been in touch with a few PAs and it has been supremely helpful and encouraging fighting the fight with a partner!!!

    My partner right now understands what i'm going through and I don't push the issue onto her as she has her own set of problems already. It is my responsibility to fight this battle and other PAs make the battle easier for sure.
     

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