I Need Change

Perhaps that should be my new profile name?

Anyway, straight to the point: I'm sick of the way my NoFap journey is going. Like every single time, when I relapsed a few days ago, I told myself 'this time will be different' but then I thought: why should it? What's different each time?

I never learn, I relapse to the same thing over and over and quite frankly, the way things are, it's not doing me any favors.

I've been thinking, and I'm honestly tempted to create a new plan:

Go cold turkey on porn for 30 days. Fap once a week MAX.

After 30 days no porn, start to cut down fapping (at which point I will (maybe?) be watching no porn).

As it stands, I'm probably fapping 2-3 times per week, so even though the new plan isn't cold turkey, it would still be an improvement.

I just can't go on the way things are. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: cold turkey is just not working for me.

I feel like I need to adjust my goals to something a little more reachable, or at least make the journey a little less steep even if it makes the process longer.

Opinions?

 

Thanks for the support

A few months ago, I would have agreed. For the last few weeks, however, I've realized that cold turkey just doesn't work for me personally. I tried the method that I described back in 2016, and i managed to go about 2 months porn free which I've never achieved since. I only lost that streak when I went cold turkey with the masturbation.

As you say I'll give it a go and see what happens

 

I realistically must have relapsed 100's of times. Something is clearly not working.